Singles & Dating - 17 April 2007

Well I am not trying to complain here...just trying to understand how to deal with a mom in law who always makes rules. I am forced to become 'the obidient' daughter in law everytime she makes the rules. I dont mind if she interferes in the big decisions...but not in every small detail of my life!! ...even about what i wear! for God's sake ..dont you feel its too much interference in ones life!!
I really dont want to say anything bad to her...cos i know thats the way she is bought up...how do i intelligently deal with this...how do i become a little more assertive and still not hurt her feelings!?!? Please help.
And my mil has come to visit me here for a couple of months and am having hell of a time dealing with her!

2007-04-17 06:17:41 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

...we both end up saying pardon to eachother a lot! We can never hear what eachother is saying and it's kind of annoying. The reason I can't hear him properly is cause I get butterflies and stuff. But he does it too- he leans towards me and says 'Pardon?' But this happens to none of my friends when they talk to him,he never says pardon to them. Does this mean he doesn't like me cause he isn't listening properly? Its frustrating that we cant have a proper conversation.

2007-04-17 05:54:25 · 13 answers · asked by x me x 2

I'm running out of ideas and need new ones. Please keep in mind that I'm limber, but not extremely flexible. Thanks. All ideas will be greatly appreciated.

2007-04-17 05:53:37 · 11 answers · asked by 2MuchnDaBac 2

There is this guy named Tyler. He is so nice and sweet. But I'm not interested in him. How do I tell him I have a great boyfriend without hurting him?

2007-04-17 05:50:47 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend- 32 yrs old- tells me he's friends with an ex still as he dont like to end off on bad terms and he likes talking to her. Well he still meets up with ex sometimes at 1130pm at night cause she works late. Well I do trust him completely with her and know he just talks with her as friend but it makes a difference that he's meeting her LATE at night rather than for lunch or something. But she works almost everyday so that would be hard. I tell him that it bothers me esp about time of day they meet up- so late. He does say if he wanted to be sexual with her it could happpen any time really. I see what he means but how can i argue my point that time of day does matter- maybe it sounds silly but i feel uncomfortable with him meeting up that late. He DOES respect my wishes to not meet up with her late but I just want to argue my point though about meeting up late and I want to let him know that its not about trust. Please reply ASAP on this, best answer wins 10 points.

2007-04-17 05:43:11 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm not worried about anything, i was just wondering a basic fact.

If you had a boyfriend that you wanted to marry, yall have been dating for a year and a half. When you go out with your girlfriends and a hot guy comes up with you flirt with him a little or just tell him your not interested.

Please tell me if you do this, or you would do this.

Please tell the truth im not judging anybody on here!

I just wanted to know how yall feel around other men when you already have a boyfriend.

2007-04-17 05:38:18 · 26 answers · asked by JAY 2

i am depressed right now and stressed out from school and life. should i just leave my bf b/c i feel that he will leave me b/c of how i am and just get sick of it.

2007-04-17 05:32:32 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend has stated that because he is often busy that he isn't going to be able to answer my calls every time I call, & sometimes I know he avoids my calls on purpose. I try not to make a big deal out of it because I know sometimes I want my piece of mind and don't want to be bothered either, but if I turn my phone off after a certain hour at night or if he calls & I don't answer & sometimes when I put my phone on charge the signal doesn't come through so it goes straight to voicemail he makes a big deal out of it. He's always like, "I called you last night but the calls went straight to voicemail." I told him that sometimes when my phone is on the charger the signal doesn't always come through. He thinks that I may be with a guy, just because I'm not answering the phone.

Isn't he being a little unreasonable, sometimes you can't always get to the phone & you can't control cell phone signals. He's come by before when I didn't answer his calls & I'm always home alone.

2007-04-17 05:28:51 · 17 answers · asked by geminig 1

I hate when people say that because I'm 16 years old and I really love my boyfriend and he loves me. There is no such thing saying you have to be a certain age before you fall in love with someone. I think its wrong for people to say that!!!

2007-04-17 05:11:21 · 11 answers · asked by centangel 1

ok me and my bf have been together for anout 1 1/2 months now and i really like him and he says all the time how much he really likes me but he doesnt like showing affection in public and i mean at all i've got him to hold my hand a couple of times but thats it. but when we are alone he is totally different and i can understand that he doesnt want alot of pda because i dont ewither but is there any way that i can at least get him to hold my hand. please help i really like this guy n i know this isnt a big deal but it kinda bugs me

2007-04-17 05:02:31 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

i love love!!! so tell me your stories!!!

2007-04-17 04:37:02 · 5 answers · asked by Chelsea S 1

I am dating a guy I have know for over a year. We have only been dating for 3 months and he tells me he loves me, I am not sure I love him but I do care about him alot. My question i scan you love someone is such little time?

2007-04-17 04:35:41 · 9 answers · asked by MiZZ707 2

"You can't make or convince someone to love you" but I believe you can make the transition 'quicker'. What are the traits of a woman who is "The One"

2007-04-17 04:33:47 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-17 04:29:42 · 11 answers · asked by Kendra H 2

men, if you could get away with it, would u like to have ur cake and eat it??

2007-04-17 04:29:28 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you could have your man in cloths you wanted what would you make him wear and why ?

2007-04-17 04:29:15 · 21 answers · asked by reaper420 2

and they keep telling me that i'm cute and stuff like that and keep writing me letters but i don't write them back so what should i do please help.

2007-04-17 04:28:45 · 17 answers · asked by William P 1

Well my best friend has a brother whosv16(im13) and i really like him and his personality not bothered about age difference but i think he would be and i dont know if hes intrested any tips.(p.s hes hard to perswuad and is a quiet punk.)

2007-04-17 04:27:18 · 17 answers · asked by Kayleigh D 1

and i have known him for a while. Problem is he seems kind of obsessed with me. He's nice and caring but i don't know if i should seeing as how he was/is obsessive?

2007-04-17 04:23:13 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

i dont know hwat me nad my man are doing but im sure it will be good if u know what i mean ; ]. so what are u doing? the smae thing as me.

2007-04-17 04:20:56 · 19 answers · asked by megga789 1

what hair color to you like the best on opposite sex and state the sex you are talking BOUT (GIRL/BOY)

2007-04-17 04:19:11 · 20 answers · asked by ixblowxkisses 1

Do guys prefer straight or wavy hair, if its like shoulder length and lets say its pretty both ways, which way do you find prettier? more attractive?

2007-04-17 04:18:31 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

or is my space.just one big meat market.

2007-04-17 04:16:34 · 3 answers · asked by luv babygurl 3

right i really need help i have not had a good chat with my boyfriend for a long time and i said to my self that i am not going to call him for a day the last time i called him was on sunday evening and i did not call him all day on monday or not even a text do you think i should call him tonight or lave it into friday evening my sister said i should do that but i am sceard that he might go off me if i dont call him and i am really sceard to all him tonight idont no want to do

2007-04-17 04:15:21 · 11 answers · asked by Suzanna G 1

I've been seeing this guy casually on and off for 2 years now, and he asked that this summer, can he have keys to my apartment - am alittle bit scared that he starting to take things too seriously. Any thoughts?

2007-04-17 04:09:23 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why do so many women seek out their "single" girflfriends for advice about relationships. Wouldn't it make much more sense if they were to get advice from married friends (those who have successful relationships)? I can tell from the way my g-friend acts that she has been chatting with one of her friends....she usually acts very unreasonable and stupid. However, when she has been chatting with the spouses of our married friends she is reall cool. What can I say to her to get her to see this?

2007-04-17 04:05:55 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

..so that he would be uncomfortable about it..and leave you both alone.
cause if you become mad at her...he will only persue knowing her more...and then they will end up ditching you.

i know there is some stratedy out there! what would you do??

(this only works if the girl wasn't stepping on YOUR toes to begin with)

2007-04-17 04:02:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

http://syzspot.spaces.live.com

Internet dating? Pah! It hurts when the pc doesn't return your love...

2007-04-17 04:01:06 · 26 answers · asked by syrea6 1

Why don't we as adults also realize that casual sex is not the right way to behave?

2007-04-17 03:59:08 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-17 03:58:40 · 14 answers · asked by Becksi 1