right i really need help i have not had a good chat with my boyfriend for a long time and i said to my self that i am not going to call him for a day the last time i called him was on sunday evening and i did not call him all day on monday or not even a text do you think i should call him tonight or lave it into friday evening my sister said i should do that but i am sceard that he might go off me if i dont call him and i am really sceard to all him tonight idont no want to do
2007-04-17 04:15:21 · 11 answers · asked by Suzanna G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Either your naturally a timid person, or you are expecting his reaction to be overly harsh. You just want someone to say yes do it so ill say it.
Yes do it :). The worst thing that could happen is he has a little winge at you then gets over it, most guys know that their gf have other things to do besides from call him all the time.
2007-04-17 04:21:10 · answer #1 · answered by ChAtMaN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This doesn't sound like a healthy relationship. Why are you so scared? Why isn't he calling you? I think it's important that people understand the importance of space in a relationship. You don't live together, you don't have any responsibilities as far as bills & kids together therefore there shouldn't be any obligation to talk to each other everyday. To me it sounds a little controlling.
Give him some space & maybe he'll call better yet give yourself some space because you don't sound very happy or secure in this relationship it may be better to just let it go.
2007-04-17 11:22:20 · answer #2 · answered by geminig 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use punctuation, it's hard to understand what you are typing and spell check! But anyway, don't worry too much and if you mean you're fighting on the phone then you should worry and try to talk things out. But if you mean that the talks aren't long then maybe there is not much to talk about. Don't be so scared take things one step at a time.
One of my exes went to school in Ohio and I am in Kentucky so that was hard and we tried to talk every night but it soon there was nothing to really talk about.
If there is problems talk about them.
2007-04-17 11:23:57 · answer #3 · answered by papasan12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The Question is really why hasn't my Boyfriend called me?
Should i have to chase him all the time
Dont forget the Phone does work both ways my Dear
2007-04-17 11:21:40 · answer #4 · answered by ashymojo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you shouldn't call him if he wanted to talk to you that bad he would call your trust in the end the truth will be known
2007-04-17 11:19:29 · answer #5 · answered by mrs.hearn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to break up with him because the one thing you shouldnt be in a relationship is scared, and your bf sounds like hes a really scary guy if hes got you all terrified on here.
2007-04-17 11:19:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him, if he cares about you he would love to hear from you, i was like that last night. And he totaly liked the suprise of my call!
2007-04-17 11:19:21 · answer #7 · answered by kal_el_kitten 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just put your self out of your misery and call him.
2007-04-17 11:20:48 · answer #8 · answered by Viaa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask ur heart if u think and feel happy to call him than plz do call him if not than don't think to much he waill call u
2007-04-17 11:20:56 · answer #9 · answered by mitir 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he cared, he would be calling you.
2007-04-17 11:21:30 · answer #10 · answered by Leigh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋