Singles & Dating - 25 March 2007

I'm thirteen. This girl started going to my church about eight months ago. She is fourteen. I knew I liked her right away. But we've only been friends until last Friday night. She has a boyfriend that does not attend our church, but I still wasn't going to do anything to her cause that would be disrespectful. But, we were playing a game of hide and go seek in the dark and she held my hand(fingers laced). I went slow. After a few hours I continued to hold her around the waist from the backside and kiss her neck. She never pushed me away and acted as if she liked it. I also did some more things not as serious. She never said stop or anything like that. But I feel uncomfortable because she hasn't talked about her boyfriend. I am a guy, so I will continue to pursue her. I don't want to become just her flirt friend on the side. She won't regret it if she dumps that other guy and get serious about me. I love her. What should I do?

2007-03-25 08:43:18 · 7 answers · asked by J Dizzle 1

I lost the girl that ment the most to me in the world. We broke up and i know its sounds stupied but i feel like ill meet new girls no problem i already have been asked out on 2 dates. though these girls mean nothin to me no matter how hot they are. I just feel like now i will have to settle for 2nd place and end up with someone who is good but nothin compared to me ex and what he had and shared. Is this true well i every find that someone who i could feel the same for or evening that i could feel more for or am i doomed for the rest of life.

2007-03-25 08:42:21 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was in a bad relationship (which I ended) and this guy completely torn down any self esteem I had at the time. I'm slowly started to forget what he's done and said, but I need alittle advice on how can I rebuild my self esteem? I'm really wanting to be in a relationship, but I don't think any guys notice me. I feel really unattractive. Any advice would be helpful.

2007-03-25 08:42:10 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-25 08:42:02 · 2 answers · asked by Volleygirl 1

I've been flirting with this guy at his work, and he gives me good discounts on things. The last time I walked in there, he glanced over to his friend and smiled to himself (not looking at me)

I'm not an expert at body language, so I'd like to know what you guys think about this.

Thanks!

2007-03-25 08:41:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I liked a girl, she led me on then said she didn't like me. We talked only for four months. After the fourth month I told a friend about how she told me about her falling in love with someone else and not me. She found out and never talked to me again. 11 months later, I've missed her and it seemed like she missed me too because she was always looking at me and sometimes she would say hi back to me. I thought maybe she'd talk to me since that was so long ago and we can be friends again. So I went to talk to her but she completely ignored me and I left her. Two days later (today) I looked at her myspace page. She changed her headline AFTER the day I tried to talk to her to simply "wondering why..." I think it may not be anything to do with me and it's not such a big deal or it could be about something else. If it has to do with me it's probably about why did I even try to talk to her. What could it mean if it does have to do with me?
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2007-03-25 08:40:16 · 3 answers · asked by Icebox -0: Never Again 5

I really lik this girl and i want to hint to her that i lik her as mor than a friend to see how she would react. please giv me how u would react to signs in a way as u dont lik the guy and in ways that u do. i reallly lik this girl...

2007-03-25 08:39:31 · 15 answers · asked by pyro_maniac_darkfire 2

Keep in mind, I am not that old but I am not that young either. I have been single for about a year in a half, due to my own decisions. I want to get back out there and start dating again but I am not sure how. I need help.

2007-03-25 08:38:41 · 12 answers · asked by !~!JeWeL eLiZeBetH!~! 2

when i use my hand on my girl it doesnt seem like she likes it any tips on what to do does any onehave any good web sites for sex tips or what not dont felll like payin for a site

2007-03-25 08:38:32 · 1 answers · asked by ted s 1

2007-03-25 08:38:28 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-25 08:37:56 · 11 answers · asked by denny 2

You can skip reading the first 2 paragraphs if you don't care about the finer details.

1)The frist time he stared showing signs of liking me, I was being totally naive about it. I was like, "why the heck does this guy keep staring at me funny?!"

2)When I realized that he was staring at me beacuse he liked me, I realized that I liked him too. Situation is that he's a grade higher than me, meaning we have no classes together. (Ok, we USED to have the same period PE, if that really counts.) We don't even walk in the same hall as each other. I don't know anything about him. I don't even know what his name is. So if he's too shy to talk to me, and if I'm really that naive with boys, then who's making the first move?

3) I want to get him to approach me beacuse I don't know if he's the type of guy who gets freaked out when girls tell him they like him. How do I get him to know that I like him and how do I get him to talk to me?

2007-03-25 08:37:35 · 11 answers · asked by Kit Untz 3

Everyone who supports their other half . Am i being selfish ?My boy friend josh plays floor hockey every wednesday , And I like watching him play and ever since he began playing I have been the only girl friend that has been to every game supporting my man , And I recently found out that the games are starting any where from 7-11 and they are only an hour game but I work the graveyard shift and i need to get a nap in before I get to work or Im no good for my crew , any ways Im not going to make it to some of the games with the change in times and that crushes me because I love watching and supporting my man , my boy friend josh says its ok he understand that i need my sleep and that work should come first but i feel bad when I miss the games , He says even though im not there he knows I care and thats what matters so my ? is Am I being selfish because i want to support my boy friend and watch his games ?

2007-03-25 08:37:33 · 9 answers · asked by Constance C 2

it might be because of my step dad but my step dad doesnt even pay much attention to him.
should i ask him about it or just ignore it??????

2007-03-25 08:37:19 · 4 answers · asked by elaina 2

After i get to know this girl a little better, where do you think an appropriate place to go would be? I know she likes funny movies, but is that okay for a first date? considering the lack of attention. (Beach and amusement park our of the question) -Dont have either lol. Any ideas besides what i have?

2007-03-25 08:36:59 · 1 answers · asked by broken_paladin15 2

What characteristics in a woman makes you feel like there is an opportunity for you to take advantage of her or take her kindness for a weakness?

2007-03-25 08:35:44 · 4 answers · asked by MockingBird 3

I like to answer questions in the catagory singles and dating. I always am afraid when I give my opinion b/c they might do what I say and I might have said something that wasnt right. I am always afraid I'll mess s/t up!!!!
what do I do and how do I know I'm not messing up?

2007-03-25 08:35:20 · 5 answers · asked by k ♥ 2

There is this boy that I really like somedays he likes me and somedays he ignores me, I dont understand why he does that if you like somone your suppose to show it arent you. So what does that mean? Does he like me or is he playing me? Help please give me serious answers no stupid ones.

2007-03-25 08:35:10 · 9 answers · asked by Kellie 1

im so desperate!!!

2007-03-25 08:33:54 · 11 answers · asked by ? 1

There is a realy cute guy in my math class who use to talk to me all the time. But after a while they move me from seats and now he does talk to me like he use to but he sees me b4 class and after and during lunch. But the only reason he ses me is b/c he tries to be around were i am but does he like me or just wanna be friends? should i ask him ? some advice will be nice

2007-03-25 08:31:35 · 7 answers · asked by ♥Princess♥ 2

>>if u want ur ex gf/bf back, then u gotta build the attraction that u had for one another at the beginning. Dont contact ur ex for about a month after the breakup, let them miss u and think about u, and in this month go and exercise, go out with friends, and hav a great time. then after a month go and do sumthing fun with them, and wen they see u after that month, u will be happy and self-confident and they will notice that change in u and it will impact on them. continue these fun dates (activities) for a little while and u'd be surprised and how the attraction between the 2 of you will grow again and it will re-establish the relationship and you will be back together. <<

i really do love my ex.. do you think that the above is true and if so would we both have changed and would our relationship be stronger? what should i do, leave it and hope that one day i will be strong enough to face him and call him in a month or wait till he calls.. coz i cant seem to move on at the moment!

2007-03-25 08:30:33 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Since my sister started up a relationship a few months ago my niece seems to have gone off the rail. A freind of mine saw my niece in a passionate embrace with a guy in a local pub. I confronted her and it appears she is dating a 23 year old local villain. I am not happy but have a very close relationship with my neice (more like a big brother than an uncle). Well, I,m ready to sought the guy out. I would appreciate advice from the
older generation as being in my mid twenties and not wishing to upset my sisters new found happyness. I have decided to tackle the guy althogh I am a big softy I'm not so soft when I lose it and am worried because I'm looking forward to meeting the jerk. is there another diplomatic way out.

2007-03-25 08:30:20 · 32 answers · asked by Redmonk 6

what does it mean when a guy uve dated 5 times flirts with u but says he'd never go out with u again in a million years?

2007-03-25 08:29:22 · 14 answers · asked by ? 1

i hear people telling me to let the right girl come to you and all that its cool and all, but whatt if you want love right now and dont want to wait, should i start just going up to everygirl and trying to hook up with them, im 20 and only had one girlfriend, i feel so immature and im still a virgin so thats not any better, should i just start going up to every girl so i can get with somoene cz if i just sit back and let love find me i may waste my time on something that may never come im at a crossroad what do i do

2007-03-25 08:27:58 · 8 answers · asked by themanthemanfrozen 2

i still love him even though he was unfaithful.

2007-03-25 08:27:15 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

i was really close too this gurl and we both fancied each other and we almost were gna ask each other out when i met this new girl who said she new my friend. and i ended up meeting up with her and going out with her. i didnt want to string the other girl along so i said i didnt fanci her animore in a nice way. then the next day the gurl i met on msn dumped me really bad she just hated the other girl i liked and wanted too hurt her now ive seen which girl was the right choice how do i get her back? can i?

2007-03-25 08:27:09 · 7 answers · asked by ciaran e 1

Why do people say this? I am still trying to forget about this guy I really had it bad for and I haven't seen him in almost 4 months! I would really enjoy my life much better if I had never had anything with him and didn't think about him all the time. He didn't dump me or anything, he just disappeared out of my life and I'll never see him again (long story, not enough time). I am constantly daydreaming of his kiss and blue because I'll never experience it again.

So do you agree with the statement "it's better to have loved and lost, than to never have loved at all," because I don't. I'd rather have him out of my mind.

2007-03-25 08:27:07 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-25 08:25:37 · 30 answers · asked by grainne 2

Do any other guys get turned on when they see plus size women at the beach when they are wearing swimwear?

2007-03-25 08:25:14 · 8 answers · asked by balletguy 4

Why is it so hard for people to talk to the people they really like when its talking that will even get you anywhere. You like someone, wouldnt you be more determaned to talk?

2007-03-25 08:23:41 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous