i hear people telling me to let the right girl come to you and all that its cool and all, but whatt if you want love right now and dont want to wait, should i start just going up to everygirl and trying to hook up with them, im 20 and only had one girlfriend, i feel so immature and im still a virgin so thats not any better, should i just start going up to every girl so i can get with somoene cz if i just sit back and let love find me i may waste my time on something that may never come im at a crossroad what do i do
2007-03-25 08:27:58 · 8 answers · asked by themanthemanfrozen 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'd start shopping around for a girl if I were you. See if you can find someone you are compatible with and go for it.
2007-03-25 08:31:49 · answer #1 · answered by nobluffzone 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In all honesty, trying to hook up with every girl you meet is a bad idea. You often find love when you aren't looking for it or in the place you weren't expecting to find it.
You should concentrate on being happy yourself and enjoying life. Girls are attracted to guys like that.
As for the virgin thing, it isn't really a big deal. Many men don't lose it right away. And not all people have 30 girlfriends.
The main thing is to be happy with what you have and what you are. The rest will follow.
2007-03-25 15:34:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO DON'T DO THAT!! Forget waiting for the right girl. The right girl wants you to go for her! You might be panicking that you're 20 and still a virgin, but I don't think that you should go with the first girl you see. Start speaking to people that you're attracted to and you might click with one of them. Don't just pick who you think looks the easiest. If you're looking for a long term relationship, you'll need to make friends with the right person first. It takes longer, but it's better than a one night stand.
2007-03-25 15:34:46 · answer #3 · answered by pulp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, I know you might feel bad that you are 20 and a virgin, but believe me, any respectable girl would want to have a relationship with someone who hasn't gone out and had sex with every girl. Besides, don't sound despret. If you go up and try to hook up with every girl it will get around and girls won't want you, unless they are into that kind of thing, not many.
2007-03-25 15:32:16 · answer #4 · answered by !~!JeWeL eLiZeBetH!~! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you look on the internet?
That is how I met my boyfriend and we are getting married this June. Neither one of us is ugly and has never had a problem getting someone, it was just something we tried and it worked out for the best.
If you go on the internet, you can put in your likes, dislikes and get the same from someone else.
Good Luck to you.
2007-03-25 15:31:50 · answer #5 · answered by missie_d_73 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't pull the "desperation move". Girls don't like that.
Instead you should try to TALK to a few girls as FRIENDS and see if they might like you. If she shows signs that she does in fact take an interest in you, THEN take slow steps. You shouldn't try to just go up to a girl and ask if she wants to hook up. Desperate guys are labeled as horny and can't control their hormones. Don't be one of them.
2007-03-25 15:32:55 · answer #6 · answered by Signed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jus ask some girl's out!!!
or u can use 1 of those dating websites
2007-03-25 15:44:45 · answer #7 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont look. ur being smart waiting. u cant fix smart
2007-03-25 15:32:06 · answer #8 · answered by pyro_maniac_darkfire 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋