i still love him even though he was unfaithful.
2007-03-25 08:27:15 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dont get caught in that trap
2007-03-25 08:30:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, since he was unfaithful, your break up wasnt because you stopped loving him, its because he cheated. So i'm sure there's probably not a lot of closure to that relationship. It's pretty normal in any break-up to still care about your ex. Time will help you move on!
2007-03-25 15:31:32 · answer #2 · answered by *LaUrEN* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he was a big part of your life for any length of time, you will always have feelings for him. All those thoughts and memories cannot be erased. If you want to get over him though, what you need to do is replace those thoughts and memories. And you don't need a man to do that. Go out with friends, hang out, nurture yourself. Do all the things you didn't have time for when you were with him. The bad thing is, you will not be able to have a healthy relationship with someone else until you come to terms with the end of this one.
2007-03-25 15:34:16 · answer #3 · answered by cilsavon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how long you were together and how close you were. Even after he cheated on you, if you two had been together a long time and made many good memories together, it may be hard to let go of the past.
Also, if the break-up was recent, you may not be fully over him. Just give it time. No one gets over a lost partner right away.
2007-03-25 15:31:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart tell him how you feel and maybe you can exept the fact that what you want to happen might not happen. So just try to find a new guy.OK MY name is chloe and Im only 10 but I had a boy friend and we broke up but I told him that I still liked him and he felt the same we got back together. I hope my advise can help. Good luck!
2007-03-25 15:34:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel I had the same problem for the longest time i still love my ex but it turns out he didn't love me from the being he just pretended too...
So my advice to you is if he is truley willing to change what he did to you around and decides to be faithful to you and he truely loves u too....find all that out and if he is then try taking him back and if he hurts you again just move on even if you still love him try to find someone who won't hurt you and loves you for u...Well I hope that helps.
2007-03-25 15:36:03 · answer #6 · answered by love_basketballgurl09 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's the way it is when you love someone dearly. Sometimes the feeling go, go and come back, or go away at once. Try to keep busy with other activities to keep your mind off of it a bit. You'll be fine.
2007-03-25 15:34:50 · answer #7 · answered by LT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure it's love? Maybe you are just feeling an emptiness without having a general partner in your life, not necessarily your not-so-great ex. I'm sure soon after you jump back into the dating world, you won't be feeling lost without him anymore.
2007-03-25 15:32:10 · answer #8 · answered by fickle™ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you love him, but if he cheated on you one you have to ask yourself the serious question of will he do it again and will you ever trust him in the same way. a relationship is built on trust and once that is broken it is very hard to get back. if you do get back with him i suggest doing it on a trial basis and warn him tht its gna b v difficult to get over soething like that, becuase believe me, no matter how ard you try it will be at the bak of your mind
2007-03-25 15:32:55 · answer #9 · answered by risendevil2k2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're just feeling a bit lonely at the minute, and its causing you to think about him more than usual. Its up to you whether you think he deserves a second chance or not but he might do it again.. I think you should move on.. you deserve better girl!!
2007-03-25 15:30:55 · answer #10 · answered by rebecca_05_yeha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is because you got to love him even though he had quirks. It is totally natural. Hell I have feelings for the girl that tore my heart out four-teen times.
2007-03-25 15:40:32 · answer #11 · answered by Desert Punk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋