Singles & Dating - 15 March 2007

Hi everyone. I first met my fiancé when I was 14 and him 16. We had a long distance relationship and therefore it was hard for us to stay loyal (and we were young). So during that age 16 through 20, he dates other girls, and I had other boyfriends. Today we decided to be serious, we've been living together for 3 years. And I just learned that he had sex with the girls he dated during our long distance relationship (me in Florida, him in Hawaii). I had boyfriends during my teens yrs too (i'm 22 and he is now 24), but I never went further than filatio and such. I didn't have sex with the guys.
But my man had sex with these girls, and it's killing me.
I can't stop thinking about it, and it drives me nuts.

What should I do? It seems that I can't move on from his past. I wish he had never had sex with these girls. It hurts me so much.

Thanks everyone
Please give me advice on what I should do to get over his past.

2007-03-15 12:39:41 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay the guy I like has a girlfriend in another school. Well, He found out I like him and has to be near me AT ALL TIMES and does crap like push me down so he can pick me up again. I don't mind the pushing, we do that all the time in our group. wellwenever I'm on myspace, I look on his page and his girlfriends name is all over it. Well we were talking about it today and he said "I hate my page my girlfriend did it." I'm So f'n confused. What could be going on?

2007-03-15 12:38:26 · 12 answers · asked by NOT USING Y!A ANYMORE!!!!!!!!!!! 5

I have been going out with this guy for 11 months. I wanna break up with him because I think that we should just be friends. What should I do? I'm afraid to break up with him because, well this probably won't happen but, I'm afraid that I will start crying or feel really bad. I need help please? and be serious about this.

P.S. We're in the middle school level.

2007-03-15 12:37:44 · 11 answers · asked by ~ICP~ Rules! 1

not go becasue you not going or should you be mad at me becasue i still want to go especially if it is my home town, This is what me and my dude going threw right now he is mad because since he is not going that i should not go, i feel that is being selfish, i need some back up here or a reality check or something!! someone help me please!!

2007-03-15 12:37:16 · 4 answers · asked by topkatgangsta 1

sence about the age of 12 i relized i was different from othere guys, for example whenever they would point out a skinny girl with big cheas I was the only one who didn't think she was hot. why i don't know but for some reson im turned on by fat girls. i would even go as far to say i think they are Hot. i have been hiding this for about two years but now i want to know why. is this normal, are there othere guys like me, should i tell my friends?

2007-03-15 12:36:20 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

I asked a girl out and she rejected me because her friend like me and she didn't want to anger her friend. how do i reject her friend and get her back?

2007-03-15 12:36:16 · 17 answers · asked by ? 2

Ive been dating this guy for awhile now and he is 23 years old and I am 17. We have had sex. I live in New York and I know the age of consent is 17 but i heard somewhere that it is only legal for a 4 year age difference, so the guy has to be 21 or below. Is this illegal what were doing?

2007-03-15 12:36:15 · 17 answers · asked by Nicole 1

2007-03-15 12:36:11 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend and I recently broke up after 9 months of being together he says he had to break up with me because I changed and I had I was going through some private things and it was affecting our relationship to where I wasn't being that physical with him we were still intimate but other than that I wasn't touching him too much. He says he still loves me and misses me and when we see each other we still kiss and hold hands, I have now figured out all the things that were bothering me and I want him back I don't know what I can do to show him that I need him and want him or if I should just let him go and try to move on. If there are any guys out there that can give me an input that would be helpful I don't know if he is using me for the intimacy right now without the stress of having a girlfriend or if he still does care and is scared that I might hurt him again.

2007-03-15 12:35:42 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been really hurt in past relationships and now i am with a brilliant guy but one of the things that i ask him to do is have contact with me at least once a day via text, e-mail or phone and if i text him can he always text me back.
Am i wrong to ask this of him?

2007-03-15 12:35:39 · 4 answers · asked by stacey f 2

whats good to say to a guy to make him feel i'm the right girl for him?

2007-03-15 12:35:28 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have never cheated on him and I have never thought about cheating on him....He did cheat on me last year and we broke up for about 5 months after that.

2007-03-15 12:35:12 · 35 answers · asked by Becky 1

This person gets the ball for me, though I can clearly get the rebound myself, and he always is flashing smiles at me. He asks me for help when he doesn't even need it! What should I do?

2007-03-15 12:34:58 · 8 answers · asked by a person 1

There is a woman I'd like to date and I don't know her home number. However I know where she works. What would she say if I left a message for her today at work?

2007-03-15 12:34:25 · 4 answers · asked by Phillip 4

I miss someone a lot and becoming sad. I'm trying to not think of her, but it's too hard. I think of her everyday cuz I see her once a week...Someone tell me what to do

2007-03-15 12:33:46 · 8 answers · asked by Daniel 2

I was just wondering if there was any lesbians out there to talk with, if so will you message me.

Please dont be answering this question or sending me messages saying negative things, Im just looking for someone to talk with.

Please be over 18, so people dont think I am a pedophile.

2007-03-15 12:33:24 · 2 answers · asked by Amy M 1

ok so theres this guy <3fabian and i like him & he likes me back..but we arent goin out . Hes 15 and im 13, but i'll be 14 in july. question #1 is: Do u think im too young 4 him?
#2. i get nervous when i talk 2 him...any advice on how not to be shy?
#3. what should i say 2 him? (something flirty)
#4. Should i tell my mom's friend? (shes his aunt kinda..thats how i know him)
#5. should i hug him goodbye next time i c him?
#6. when we go out should i tell him hes my 1st boyfriend?
answer these truthfully!!! thanks!!!

2007-03-15 12:32:48 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

Been spending a decent amount of time with this girl for the last two weeks..seems like its going VERY good.

Here is my problem..

Shes so nice. I ask her to do something with me, and shes always asking me if I still want to do it later. Idk. Initially I thought this was just an awful thing. So, I decide to talk to her about it. We were sitting in her car (and just had one of those quick silent stares and a smile) then I told her in a very nice way that it bothers me when she does it. She said she is being honest, and that if she didn't want to spend time with me, then she wouldn't.

This would be her first relationship..ever. Probably the first guy she's ever even like flirted with or did anything dateish with. SO yea..thanks.

Haha..heres the question..

What do you think about this? Is she just being nice, or is she insecure? She mentioned to me one time how girls are not very self-confident..which was a surprise to me haha.

2007-03-15 12:32:20 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

i get home from practice and i got crazy pimples..so i tried popping alot of them but now i got a lot of red spots on my face =(

this is a girl i've liked for so long and just now built up the courage to talk to

2007-03-15 12:31:22 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

When we talk on the phone or see each other at school he is really shy. Should I make some of the moves by going up to him...or just let him come to me. I'm scared that if I do start going up to him, he will think I am coming on too strong and that is the last thing I want him to think. What do I do?

2007-03-15 12:30:30 · 16 answers · asked by Lauryn 1

2007-03-15 12:30:21 · 9 answers · asked by shorty10 1

I think this guy likes me, and he hangs around me alot, flirts, jokes a lot, tickles me, and the other day he says i was bittersweet. What does that mean? Does he like me?

2007-03-15 12:30:16 · 10 answers · asked by LoVe.PeAcE.jOy. 2

well there are some ANNOYING guys who keep PUSHING themselves on me and i DO NOT like them...and they're annnoooyyyiiinnnggg

but then...HENRY...i have a CRUSH on him and E V E R Y 1 knows!!!

and i get all blushed up and clam up like a clam around him and i asked him out out of nowhere and he got kinda suprized and said no...

well now he's finally single

would he see me as the way I see the other boys, like an annoying little tick?? ===(((((((((

i'm prettty and nice and outgoing

2007-03-15 12:29:22 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well i like this boy alot. He is in my class and we sit kinda near each other. Sometimes in class i see him looking at me and when i catch him i smile and he smiles back. We dont talk alot but we do talk. Alot of time in class he will come over to me and sit by me and ask me for help with the work we are doing. He normally leans in really close when im showing him what to do. And one day we were holding hands with out even realizing it. Should i just flat out ask him if he wants to hangout or something? Im just afraid he doesnt like me, you know? Im kinda new to the whole dating thing. Please help.

2007-03-15 12:29:17 · 11 answers · asked by Abercrombie Queen 2

okay so ice has been broken and everything seems to be going well and then i freeze.... we can talk about anything i just can't relate. i just tend to listen or ask few questions. its not like i'm not interested, i'm very i just don't know how to hold a convo down

2007-03-15 12:28:43 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-15 12:28:18 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well me and this girl have one class together, and lunch together.(in highschool) We are friends and we talk in class, one time I caught her kind of playing with her hair when she was talkin to me. We joke around alot, she'll say hey in the halls to me sometimes, we keep good eyecontact when we are talkin, what else can I look for to tell if she likes me?
Does it sound like she likes me, what other info should I give?

She also (i don't know if this is joking) calls me sexy and tells me to call her that.

2007-03-15 12:28:11 · 9 answers · asked by Wolfpack 3

i specifically need to know what you need to know to make the song team.
&& i have a few questions...
do they give you a paper telling you what they want?
&& can you give me tips for the tryouts...
thanx =]

2007-03-15 12:27:27 · 4 answers · asked by Spongebob ") 3

My fiancé has a weird position when he does number 2. He doesn't sit on the toilet seat like you and I, he actually sits on top of it. Instead of seating his butt on the seat, he gets on top of the toilet bowl with his feet, and takes a dump crouched down...like as if he was taking a dump in the forest.

It's really weird to see him like that, but he tells me that he has to position himself like that or else "it won't come out".

Is there a way to potty train him in order for him to sit on the toilet seat like normal people?
What should I tell him? What should I do?

Weird question I know, but it's really aggravating to see.

Thanks everyone

2007-03-15 12:25:40 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why do girls play with their hair when they talk to you? and I also notice that their eyes grow larger ( pupils) and look away..does this really mean they fancy you?

2007-03-15 12:25:30 · 19 answers · asked by Jamie79 3