I asked a girl out and she rejected me because her friend like me and she didn't want to anger her friend. how do i reject her friend and get her back?
2007-03-15 12:36:16 · 17 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i don't want to just forget about her: i want her back
2007-03-15 12:49:19 · update #1
Just say it in the NICEST way possible. Just tell the friend, "I understand how you feel, but I just don't feel the same way." I mean, it's not your fault that you like the girl and not the girl's friend. If you end up going out with the girl and her friend starts acting all messed up, then that may show that their friendship wasn't that strong to begin with. Just be nice and tell the girl's friend, "I don't want to lie to you, I want to be honest and I don't feel the same way I'm sorry." and tell the girl you do want to go out with, "I know you're good friends with her, but I really do care about you. I can't help my emotions about you." Or something on the lines of that. Good luck!
2007-03-15 12:41:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Tell the friend that you just don't have feelings for her. But whatever you do, don't mention why your breaking up with her..or at least the part that you want her friend. Say it calmly and even if she trys to start something, back away and stay calm! Add a compliment with the rejection, like im sure your a great person, so that it shows her friend how nice you can be in a tough situation like this. Good luck! Hope that helps!
2007-03-15 19:40:37 · answer #2 · answered by Lauryn 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should probably find someone else. You don't want to hurt her friend because then you will look like a jerk and the friend that you don't like will turn to the girl that you DO like to get over you. It WILL NOT turn out in your favor. You could let the girl down gently and wait a while before you make a move on her friend, but it would Probably take a LONG while. Sorry!!!! No good news for you!!!!!
2007-03-15 19:46:16 · answer #3 · answered by michelle S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a sticky situation because the friend will be mad if the 2 of you date, even though the girl you are interested in was gracious enough to decline so as not to hurt the feelings of her friend. Don't be so quick to "reject" the other girl--you have to do it in a nice way if you want a shot at the first girl.
2007-03-15 19:40:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should not continue to make yourself unhappy and give your heart to someone that you have no interest in. If I were you I would gently and politely tell her friend that I am not interested in her and that I have strong feelings for her friend, she may become saddend but why should you lie to your heart and miss out on an incredible girl. Chances are she will get over it, and if she is a true friend she would push her feelings aside so that her friend could be happy.
2007-03-15 19:44:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you reject her friend, you are going to be on bad terms with both of them. Just walk away and pursue someone else...you are better off without the drama.
2007-03-15 19:39:36 · answer #6 · answered by Fireanddesir 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you reject her friend she is likely to hold this against you. Try being friends with both. Don't rush or messing up is guaranteed
get to know both as girls as friends, you may like the girl that wants you. tread carefully
2007-03-15 19:41:58 · answer #7 · answered by steven m 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
At my school we have this problem really badly. Everyone likes everyone and your friends and you have the same crush. What we do is like let the boy do the work if you like her friend then you need to talk to the other girl and tell her that you dont like her and you would really like it if she would tell her friend that she can go out with you and tell her that maybe later on she might like you but right now you are really hooked on her friend and would like to get to know her more. But dont be mean about it. I would also talk to the girl that you like and ask her if she would talk to her friend and get premission to go out with you but like dont get all worked up if this girl likes you enough then she will go out with you even if her friend gets mad.. GOOD LUCK
2007-03-15 19:43:01 · answer #8 · answered by tropical_sweety2587 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can't sorry...It is hard to have a relationship with someone your friend likes. If they are pretty good friends then she probably will not go for you. Give it up and move on.
2007-03-15 20:00:04 · answer #9 · answered by asiansmile 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly do you really think that the freind that rejected you would go out with you ven though her friend likes you.... I think you should try to get to know the girl that actually likes you
p.s. good luck in whatever you choose to do.
2007-03-15 19:41:22 · answer #10 · answered by jamiefear_on 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋