ok so theres this guy <3fabian and i like him & he likes me back..but we arent goin out . Hes 15 and im 13, but i'll be 14 in july. question #1 is: Do u think im too young 4 him?
#2. i get nervous when i talk 2 him...any advice on how not to be shy?
#3. what should i say 2 him? (something flirty)
#4. Should i tell my mom's friend? (shes his aunt kinda..thats how i know him)
#5. should i hug him goodbye next time i c him?
#6. when we go out should i tell him hes my 1st boyfriend?
answer these truthfully!!! thanks!!!
2007-03-15 12:32:48 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's ok to like a guy but you're way too young to date!
Have fun in group settings and at school. That way you'll learn to talk to him without being so nervous.
Forget the hugging for now. Just have fun being friends!
2007-03-15 12:37:41 · answer #1 · answered by iwonder 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
#1. What do your folks think? This may be the right time to have a talk with your parents. It's good to know the ground rules. If you start an adult conversation with your parents, they'll appreciate your maturity and reward you with their trust in you.
#2. He likes you. Why be nervous? Just think of him as a new friend.
#3. Compliment him on something you like about him. But don't over do it.
#4. Yes, I think you should tell your mom's friend. Adults can be very helpful. She may offer you some good advice.
#5. A hug is nice. You'd hug a friend, so why not Fabian?
#6. No. Don't tell him he's your 1st boyfriend until after he's told you that you're his girlfriend. And even then, it could wait a bit. A little mystery goes a long way.
Be careful, and good luck.
2007-03-15 12:45:29 · answer #2 · answered by newmistakes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. No, your not. But make sure your not going into this relationship because you just want a boyfriend. Sometimes the older guys are willing to go farther than you will.
2. After awhile, you will just be yourself. Talk to him alot on the phone and build a relationship with him to where you can be confrotmable.
3. Something like "I missed you" or "You make my day so much better.
4. Be like, "I like him and he likes me. I just wish he would step up". This way, I am sure his aunt will push him to ask you out and you will find out if your mom approves.
5. Totally! When he says bye, say "Do I not get a hug?" while smiling sweetly. He will smile and give you a huge hug.
6. Depends on if you think it would change anything in your relationship.
2007-03-15 12:40:17 · answer #3 · answered by Stephy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
#1 there isn't any age 4 love
#2 advice try practicing ur talk conversation in the mirror/call him with the phone, getting closer 2 him nerveswill go pass by
#3 try something like what would u do tonight cause i was wondering if u wanna go out with me, not as a d8... unless u want 2, uh what do u think, if it doesn't liked u this advice, just ignor8 itand try somethin' better
#4 god, no, 4 + confidence u have with this woman, love can't be revealed like that
#5 i would try an innocent kiss on the cheek, but what ever u want it's ok
#6 yes, guys love this comments, like u r my first (boyfriend, ex, crush ...)
2007-03-15 13:33:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably don't want to hear this, but you are way too young to have a boyfriend. You need to focus on school and developing your intertests and character before you even think about having a boyfriend. Think about your future; you don't need someone to distract you from your goals. Once you're in college for a bit and have a clear plan for yourself and are as level-headed as a 20 year old can be, then you can start flirting with the idea of having a boyfriend--but please, not until then. You don't need the drama right now; trust me. You have your whole life ahead of you to figure out the "love" thing--just have fun right now; enjoy your adolescense while you still have it. Go out with your girlfriends, volunteer, spend time with your family, and focus on school. You don't realize it, but these are the times that you'll never get back once you're older. Don't miss out on being 14; it's a good age to just hang out and mess around with friends. You'll have plenty of time later to complicate your life with drama. It'll come sooner than you think. Trust me.
2007-03-15 12:44:50 · answer #5 · answered by Casually Lame 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok you are young but 15 is not to much older. But be careful you can not trust people. You are 13 and must protect your self. My girlfriend has been hurt deeply by past relationships so i am trying to help you you dont know who people are under the skin. And if you two date he is your first boyfriend that is hard because you become emotional connected so be careful. As far as being shy that is something that just takes time. If you like him ok but dont put your self in situations that can be bad
2007-03-15 12:41:26 · answer #6 · answered by burn409 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is ok for you to have a crush on him but you are too young to date any boy. You can tell your mom's friend if you want and you can even let him know that he is your first boyfriend. But you need to just relax. Part of the fun of dating is the fabulous feeling we get when we like someone and it still our secret. Just enjoy what ever is going on cuz he wont be your last boyfriend. Good Luck -k-
2007-03-15 12:42:46 · answer #7 · answered by kbama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1= You are deff not too young for him. My boyfriend is 15 and im 13 too
2= If your nearvous just friends. Get used to him b4 you go out. When you go out you shouldnt be nearvous. But when you are friends its okkay.
3=Just like go with the flow. Thats what i do and all the guys think im really flirtyy
4= You should tell your mom's friend if shes like a fun mom or like a cool adult. Make sure she doesnt tell your mom bc mom's are paranoid about crap like this.
5= Hug him every chance you get!!! (if you wanna be like flirty and show him your not shy you should be the one to hug)
6= DONT EVER TELL A GUY HE IS YOUR FIRST BOYFRIEND!!! I SWEAR THEY WILL BE ALL WIERDED OUT!
hope this helpss
<3
P.S. dont litsen to all the old people. Take it from a girl your age. (this is like total best answer material =] )
2007-03-15 12:40:43 · answer #8 · answered by Shelby Sunshine! 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, you're not too young for him, but you are too young for serious dating. If you are going to go out, then a group date will be the safest way of getting to know this boy. You have your whole life ahead of you, and you have sufficient maturity to consider some of the implications, but at nearly 14, not quite enough.
Take it easy, and slowly; be sensible, talk to your Mom; parents actually DO know something about your plight as most of them had to go through this themselves.
Good luck.
2007-03-15 12:39:09 · answer #9 · answered by Modern Major General 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Yes way to young he sounds like a pedophle to me
2. To not be shy drink some before you talk to him
3. Say "Did it hurt when you fell from heaven"
4. If she is your aunts kinda of course tell her
5. The next time you see him you want his baby
6. Never tell him you already have to illigetamite kids and nee child support guys love that
2007-03-15 12:37:49 · answer #10 · answered by Ninja 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋