When we talk on the phone or see each other at school he is really shy. Should I make some of the moves by going up to him...or just let him come to me. I'm scared that if I do start going up to him, he will think I am coming on too strong and that is the last thing I want him to think. What do I do?
2007-03-15 12:30:30 · 16 answers · asked by Lauryn 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he's already your boyfriend I dont think going up to him would make him think your coming on to strong. I'm not sure theres anything you can do to make him overcome his shyness. I think thats something he's going to have to work out on his own.
2007-03-15 12:34:58 · answer #1 · answered by Bark at the Moon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, u guys are a couple now, so let him know how u feel. yeah, u must give him his space, so let him know u respect that and u dont wanna push him... but also, let him know that u have ur necesities as well, and that u need more from him. make sure u let him know u r not trying to change him or anything, and tell him to trust u, and for whatever reason he doesnt wanna give his first move, ask him what is the problem, so u BOTH talk it out as a COUPLE, and if theres no way u can get him to do what u need him to do... lol... just tell him u have ur needs, and u should both move on and find someone who you both have more common ground with... i really hope that u guys can actually talk it out, and find a dsolution.. gud luck
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2007-03-15 12:48:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I even have the comparable situation yet you will desire to easily get a pal (best in case you have a pal it particularly is pals consisting of your bf) and then take her/him with you and then your buddy ought to in line with possibility start up verbal substitute approximately something and you wont experience so shy additionally hugging is uncomplicated have confidence me purely bypass as much as him and hug him yet i understand in case you cant try this :) best of success x and that i'm hoping i've got helped :)
2016-12-18 14:44:33 · answer #3 · answered by zabel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just flirt with him. But wait till he is ready to move on or you'll scare him off. If you go slow and built his confidence he will become less shy with you.... It takes time.
2007-03-15 12:37:38 · answer #4 · answered by bill45310252 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be cool about it. When you talk to him in school, don't follow him everywhere, walk with him sometimes and other times don't. Give him some space.
If he's shy, you should give him time to warm up and try to make him feel comfortable.
2007-03-15 12:35:47 · answer #5 · answered by Nevaeh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like hes a lil kid..or is scared of you..sh*t i dunno..Just let it all come on to play n u be ok
2007-03-15 12:35:50 · answer #6 · answered by Jeff 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would make the move if he isn't.
You don't have to walk up to him and kiss him, but try flirting around with him and see if he catches on to you.
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2007-03-15 12:45:16 · answer #7 · answered by Jessica Kelly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is 2007 dear, ask him to a movie. Let it begin.
2007-03-15 12:34:42 · answer #8 · answered by Arial 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just like talk to him.,...adn yea go up to him and say het...i mean he is ur bf....but dont liek be where is he where is he...adn when yall yall on the phone try to carry a strong conversation
2007-03-15 12:35:39 · answer #9 · answered by girl 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe ask him on the phone why he's so shy. he might answer you and then you'll know why he's so shy.
2007-03-15 12:37:08 · answer #10 · answered by elizatinkerbell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋