My boyfriend and I recently broke up after 9 months of being together he says he had to break up with me because I changed and I had I was going through some private things and it was affecting our relationship to where I wasn't being that physical with him we were still intimate but other than that I wasn't touching him too much. He says he still loves me and misses me and when we see each other we still kiss and hold hands, I have now figured out all the things that were bothering me and I want him back I don't know what I can do to show him that I need him and want him or if I should just let him go and try to move on. If there are any guys out there that can give me an input that would be helpful I don't know if he is using me for the intimacy right now without the stress of having a girlfriend or if he still does care and is scared that I might hurt him again.
2007-03-15 12:35:42 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Probably some of each.
He's enjoying the sex. He's keeping the option open of more of a relationship developing again. But he's waiting for you to prove yourself to him.
2007-03-15 14:02:55 · answer #1 · answered by Curt Monash 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first even if you have figured out your problems, you need to sit down with him and say exactly what you did here and ask him that verry question, and tell him to be honest and that if his answer is the bad one at least you will know and not have your heart used anymore. and if its he's scared than thats your chance to reasure him your love is real. good luck girl......
2007-03-15 19:49:39 · answer #2 · answered by jayistheway33 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋