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Singles & Dating - 14 March 2007

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I am having SERIOUS issues trusting what my fiance tells me when he goes out. He has done some shady things to me in the past (but to my knowledge he has never cheated on me). He has lied to me before (about hanging out with another girl) and I have caught him. Now I analyze everything he tells me. I try to put all the peices of his story together in my head to try and figure out if he just made up a bogus lie or he is telling me the truth about where he was and what he did. And I KNOW I shouldn't, but I can't stop myself! I feel like he lies to me all the time (and sometimes he does. he lies about little dumb things).

How can I not be so paranoid? I hate feeling that way! Any advice for women going through a similar situation?

2007-03-14 01:24:24 · 8 answers · asked by *~ Nicole ~* 3

2007-03-14 01:23:34 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

There is this guy that i really like. He's super smart, funny, friends with everyone, but still kind of shy. Well he gave me a necklace (really nice, from Rome). After awhile my friends started bugging him about it and asking why, because i kept saying i wanted to know why. He wouldn't answer them. The other day i let my friend Julia see it and i said "It sure is making things strange around here." So she gets up and goes over to the guy, and says, "Lee doesn't feel right keeping this, if you didn't have a reason for giving it to her."
and she gave it back to him.
Ahhh i feel naked without the necklace on!!! Now when i have to talk to him, he won't make eye contact and is really quiet and if he does have to talk to me, he's kind of rude, not himself. Then i see him with his friends and he acts normal.
So what is going on? Should i talk to him? What do i say? I don't want to seem like an idiot because he might now like me. Or does he?

2007-03-14 01:22:53 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am in a great relationship with a nice and sweet guy and it has been a year sense he has well had sex . Hesaid he will wait for when I am ready but talks about it all the time. Is it a man thing? And the fact is it has been a while? We have only been a couple for a month and he has not dated anyone in a year.

2007-03-14 01:22:35 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been talkin to a girl through e-mail that I met in college a few years back from USC, we just got in touch again.. well we've been talking through e-mail and on the phone a lot and she said she wanted to go eat dinner and see a movie this weekend. She said she's not out looking for a boyfriend but if it did happen she would have no problem with it. What does that mean when a woman says that?? I know it seems basic but who knows??

She also seems a tough one, a lot of people she dates or dated usually end up becoming just friends.

2007-03-14 01:22:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-14 01:21:12 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

i'm a girl (the id belongs to my brother)
i am always occupied by thoughts such as "woulda, coulda, shoulda". How do I get over these thoughts? How do I stop missing people I dont even know. that's a bit strange to say the least. Like if I manage to occupy myself throughout the day and not think about such things, then I see these people/places in my dreams and I wake up feeling all mushy, crapy etc.
Why? why? why? these dreams must stop

2007-03-14 01:19:25 · 8 answers · asked by rose 1

this 14 yer old boy likes me i dont know him that well and im only 12 and a helf but people say im 13 and a half should i go out with the gut

2007-03-14 01:18:34 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

It's been 2 months now ever since the break up. It was a harsh one because it came out of nowhere, no warning, like clicking your fingers, worst thing is that he gave me no reason. I did not contact him ever since the break up until yesterday when he called me and tried to give me an explanation which still went no where, saying he was unhappy and doesn't feel the same way about me anymore but DOESN"T KNOW WHY for f*** sake, but admitted to pretending that everything was ok for the last few months. Before he contacted me I was slowly picking up the pieces of my life, however since the break up was so sudden and unexplainable I had false hope, praying for him to realise it was a mistake but had the time to think of what he really wants (has committment phobic issues), however yesterday when he told me his reasons it's like being heartbroken again, like it just happened yesterday, but commented that "its been 2 months". How dare he, I went cold turkey, he had months up his sleeve.

2007-03-14 01:15:13 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

This is a real holiday ladies. Are you going to participate?

2007-03-14 01:11:04 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have always been good at gettin it but I never learned how to eat her out and my new gf wants me 2 badly!!!

2007-03-14 01:08:05 · 8 answers · asked by Joe F 1

It has only been 1 week since he left to go back to his country and even though she will be travelling to stay with him in june...she needs something to take her mind off missing him so much.

Any ideas?

2007-03-14 01:07:14 · 3 answers · asked by robynsbeauty 3

2007-03-14 01:04:45 · 19 answers · asked by missobrien@btinternet.com 1

if ur lover and u did't talk fr last one month and suddenly u r in same city and u can talk to her but u can't, b'coz u feel that she talk first then-----

2007-03-14 01:04:28 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I met a girl at a friends wedding about a month ago - she seemed really positive and fun and we talked a bit (mostly about her) and i notice she kept sitting next to me, asking me to dance, coming outside when I was..etc

She crossed my mind since so I got her number from my friends new wife. When I called I could hear she was driving so I told her I'd call back in 15. I did. she did not answer. I text her to say i dont understand the ignorance but i would take it as she is having a bad day. she text me back that night saying she had a hard day and she would be free next day should i wish to call. I called her in 5 days as i am busy. No answer. I text her the last time to say I like you so far it would be good if she could call me when she is free. 5 days later she text me apologising for not returning my call as she was busy with work and what have you. told me hey maybe give me a call during the day. looking at current trends i am no fool - she will not answer

What the hell went on?

2007-03-14 01:03:58 · 13 answers · asked by tripppah 3

We are both 17, I have only known her for a few months but she recently has started flirting with me in and out of school, I'm not too sure what to do as she already has a boyfriend so i dont want to ask her out or start pashing her or any of that, she has a very cheery character so i'm not too sure if this is how she usually acts around her friends, but i doubt so.

So someone please help me as I have very little experience in these sorts of things.
From someone in need

2007-03-14 01:03:57 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I do none of these things, but I REALLY LIKE HIM!!! We talk on the phone, and in school, and he and I get along really well. Alot of people at school say he's gross, but I am attracted to him both physically and mentally...mind..or heart?
He's gothic/emo..I'm preppy...but I have cut in the past..so I feel he understands that part of me..HELP PLEASE!!

2007-03-14 01:03:23 · 11 answers · asked by ursoolastsumer 2

2007-03-14 01:01:39 · 4 answers · asked by scorpe_2000 2

I met the gal ive been seeing yesterday... I was with her all wknd, anyway, it felt like i aint seen her in ages... It was only 1 day...! She said the same, what does this mean...?

2007-03-14 00:59:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

You and your boyfriend are bowling with a group of friends. You both are mingling with friends so its not obvious that you are together. However in the next lane (from another group) a guy/stranger comes over to talk/flirt with you.

How would you want your boyfriend to react?

1) He should continue to talk with his own friends and let you meet new people.

2) He should come over next to you and hold you or make a comment like "hi honey".

3) He should come closer (but not next to you) and listen in on the conversation.

4) He should come over and tell the stranger you are his girlfriend.

Which would you want your boyfriend to do?

Also answer if you are shy or not. I think this makes a difference because outgoing girls enjoy meeting new people.

I think each answer describes totally different guys. I'd like to see what the majority of girls would like their boyfriend to be like.



Now would your answer change if this guy is normal looking, but creepy and you felt uncomfortable?

2007-03-14 00:58:42 · 14 answers · asked by Mike 2

i am always occupied by thoughts such as "woulda, coulda, shoulda". How do I get over these thoughts? How do I stop missing people I dont even know. that's a bit strange to say the least. Like if I manage to occupy myself throughout the day and not think about such things, then I see these people/places in my dreams and I wake up feeling all mushy, crapy etc.
Why? why? why? these dreams must stop

2007-03-14 00:58:41 · 4 answers · asked by rose 1

he said that he loves me but now he has started avoiding me
he doesn't replies to my mails....nor tells me why is doing so
he doesn't calls me...he doesn't meets me fram a week ...
he is getting shifted in 4 days...and he is avoiding me so strongly
i am unable to tolerate all this?/
kya karun?

2007-03-14 00:57:17 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-14 00:57:09 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend works quite hard all day and most saturdays too! I wouldn't say i'm sex mad but i love having sex and when we met we used to do it ll the time, anywhere, anywhen! He's so good in bed but he's always tired when we get in by 7pm most evenings! He'll quite happily have a quickie in the morn before he goes off too work! But i want it in the evenings! Any advise or ideas grately appreciated!!!!!

I've got lots of sets of nauty undies, pretty bbydolls, cute pj short sets but i think ive worn these out and still if he's tired then he tired - help! I want to put tips to practice tonight!!!
He's suggested viagra - where can i get some quick!!!!

2007-03-14 00:56:25 · 22 answers · asked by Ebab831 3

well i dont know where to start. i was in a relationship for nearly 2 years. the first year was amazing then it went sort of down hill. in the last 3 months of our relationship i found myself not wanting to spend time with her, id rather be on my own- i also didnt want to have sex with her as i found she put on weight, and to me let herself go.
I wasnt happy and it seemed like i was going off her.

Anyhow she dumped me just over a month ago. since then ive really missed her. The reason she said was that she had been gonig off me for around 3 months- didnt say anythnig as she was hoping it would go away.

dont ask me how we got to the point but she said she didnt want me to speak/see her again.

been trying to get on with my life- going out with friends, working etc yet i find in myself something is missing. I dont know whether i miss my ex or her company.

would probally say i never truely thought we would be together forever.

why am i finding it hard to let go?

2007-03-14 00:53:52 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend sometimes hurt me but never realises it and instead he turns the table around and puts everything on me. It did not happen once but always else he is the gem of a guy.

2007-03-14 00:52:26 · 18 answers · asked by Sneha 1

Well it's not actually me....but a friend ...lol
Anyway she calls him at work and texts him continuosly....says she's pregnant etc. etc.
She even posed as a government official on the phone to his boss.
Does it help to let you know she is an alcoholic?

2007-03-14 00:52:00 · 6 answers · asked by handymanfound 1

2007-03-14 00:51:06 · 12 answers · asked by Cailin Deas 1

only a few of my trusted friends know that we're back again at each other's arms after an almost-two-months break up...

we just show in front of everyone that we're just friends..

2007-03-14 00:49:49 · 13 answers · asked by GqEuReAeLnDy 1

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