I am feeling very lonely?

Question

i'm a girl (the id belongs to my brother)
i am always occupied by thoughts such as "woulda, coulda, shoulda". How do I get over these thoughts? How do I stop missing people I dont even know. that's a bit strange to say the least. Like if I manage to occupy myself throughout the day and not think about such things, then I see these people/places in my dreams and I wake up feeling all mushy, crapy etc.
Why? why? why? these dreams must stop

Answer 1

it sounds like a bit of anxiety.
Are you eating properly, are you over stressed with your job or school.
These factors could lead your thoughts astray and cause you to want an escape from the pressure... thus the dream
I am thinking that you need to set up some goals for yourself.
Make a plan for what you want to do in the future and work slowly towards it.
Perhaps a daytimer so that you could organize your time to go and do the things you really want.
If you pencil them in and they are sitting on a page in front of you it might jog your memory and you will follow through .
Sometimes we need to clean closets reorganize and get our priorities straight.
Maybe a memory or dream board or poster with things you want to do might help you focus a bit better.
You need to do some things that relax you, put on your sneakers and go for a long leisurely walk, no ipod no cell phone, just quiet.
Go to a park near water and sit and listen and relax.
You must find an outlet to relax... and you must get up off your butt and start making things happen for you.
This is reality and life is what you make it, so start planning, organizing and get back to reality.

Answer 2

How old are you??
This could be hormonal. The old hormones are adjusting in teens (and even later in life) They can be very disturbing.
Also, it could be due to your sleep. Maybe you are not getting proper sleep--and that does not necessarily mean you need more sleep. My meaning is you are not getting a deep enough sleep. The right medicine could help this (but I do not know which one) A doctor might not know which one or you might have to try several before hitting on the right one. Also, there are side effects (as well as good) from most medicines. Sometimes I take a couple of tylenol at bedtime--although I am not hurting. It seems to give me a better night's sleep. This may be something you will just have to live with and deal with all of you life. If you are mentally strong enough--you can deal with it--just work on it.
Good luck.

Answer 3

hey,
Its aite to feel like that... but if u feel it a bit too often, i suggest you talk to someone close to you. But all i can say is that you are a very caring person, to feel that way, but u also need to be more occupied, and this should help you think of things like this less. Make some new friends, go out, and socialize!

Hope I helped you. Peace!

Answer 4

Go out and do something. Everyone has times like this in their life. I know it doesn't seem like anytime soon but you will start feeling better if you do more things and meet more people.

Answer 5

Before you go on a killing rampage, talk to your guidance counselor at school. He/she will be better prepared to help you than any one of these so-called experts on this site. Tell her or him what you wrote here, and they will be able to guide you in the right direction. Don't listen to any of these ham and eggers here, I have ALL the answers!!!!!!!!!!!@

Answer 6

aww u just waisted ur bros 5 pts... hehe im like really bored to and im in school and have nothing to do and im in web desighn and im like ... eerrr and i dont feel like doing this stupid ssiments cause there gay and yea.....

Answer 7

try to occupy your life

Answer 8

i got know ideal