I am in a great relationship with a nice and sweet guy and it has been a year sense he has well had sex . Hesaid he will wait for when I am ready but talks about it all the time. Is it a man thing? And the fact is it has been a while? We have only been a couple for a month and he has not dated anyone in a year.
2007-03-14 01:22:35 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
stop being a tease, let him have it
2007-03-14 01:26:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
He wants sex! Of course he is going to talk about it! Heck, most guys talk about sex all the time when they DON'T want it. It is one of the few times where it is definitely a guy thing, and generally not a stereotype (although there are a few exceptions). Your guy has not had sex in a long time. He probably wants it really, really, really badly. So naturally he is going to talk about it and hint and hope he gets lucky.
That said, you do not have to give in to him if you are not ready. If he truly loves you, he'll wait. I was engaged for a half a year before I finally made love with my wife. I survived.
Barely. :-)
2007-03-14 01:27:17 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, now you're getting the idea...women date for security and warmth. Men date so they have sex at the ready, which unfortunately doesn't often pan out. He's normal and healthy for wanting sex with you, and if it's been a year since he's had any, he can probably change your car tire without using a jack! If you like him enough to call yourself a 'couple', what are you waiting for? Him to explode!?
2007-03-14 01:34:05 · answer #3 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is a man thing. I have a saying - "the doe has her seasons, but the buck is perennial". It means that the male of the species still has the ancient instinct of being always ready for a female who comes into season. Originally it was an unconscious way of ensuring the continuity of the species with HIS sperm. Come to think of it, it still means that. . . . .
Let me say that he appears to be a gentleman in saying he'll wait for you, but remember that he is a man, and has TWO eyes.
2007-03-14 01:34:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-18 08:42:22 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are more than likely right...it has been a year for him and he wants sex. I guess it is harder for men to go without than women in general.
Don't be coerced into doing anything you don't want to do. Go at your own pace, not his.
be cool...
2007-03-14 01:28:12 · answer #6 · answered by CC Babydoll 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
They like sex and want to mark their territory.
2007-03-14 01:29:27 · answer #7 · answered by Veevee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
los hombres need the sex. we need the sex also. but them need it a lot.
2007-03-14 01:47:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is hinting because he wants to know if you are ready...he sure is....don't do it until you are sure...good luck
2007-03-14 01:26:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with that. Either you are with it or not.
2007-03-14 01:25:52 · answer #10 · answered by Michael b 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋