Singles & Dating - 14 March 2007

Even if hes given some signals, still afraid, why?

2007-03-14 02:01:03 · 6 answers · asked by alt 2

I feel like such an idiot . I am 43 and in a great in a relationship with a woman who loves me and I love her but my insecurities are chipping away at the relationship and starting to ruin it . We have been together for about a year and a half we both have children from a previous marriage. I think that my girlfriend is beautiful and has a very outgoing personality and loves talking to everyone . My problem is that sometimes men see this as a come on and that bothers me , I told her how knowing that bothers me but I don't want het to not be herself and withdrawl from people , We joined a gym and I felt insecure when they gave her a free work out with a personal trainer that was male . I know that my girl had an affair when she was married which was a long and horrible marriage 4 her . I am not sure if it is knowing that this took place in the past or maybe it is just my insecurities which I have always have . How can I overcome this insecurity I want to be a strong confident person ,

2007-03-14 02:01:01 · 6 answers · asked by el diablo 1

I've got a crush on a girl who already has a boyfriend. But she asked me for drinks a few weeks ago and was extremely flirtatious throughout. At the same time, she was sending me mixed signals throughout. The problem is I do have a crush on this girl and can't seem to get her out of my mind. I'm doing other things and going on other dates and stuff, but a part of me can't help but wonder what other people do in situations like this. I mean, girls leave their BFs for other guys, it's been known to happen. So, my question is: has anyone here had a crush on a girl who had a BF and still got her? And been happy with her later? Girls -- did you ever start liking another guy when you had a BF and ended up with the other guy? If so, what did the guy do to win you over?

I definitely don't want a girl who can be a cheater, regardless of how big a crush I have on her ... so just trying to get some thoughts from everyone here. Thanks for your help! BTW, I'm 30 yrs old, not in high school...

2007-03-14 01:58:41 · 5 answers · asked by riddler 1

He says that he has never cheated on his girlfriend and when he is with someone he is with them. However, he keeps wanting to talk to me and he says he wants to make love to me again. He says that he has always loved me and missed me. I have missed him too. I can't figure out if he loves me of or if he is playing me. If we had gotten together would he be doing this with someone else or am I just that special to him?
He told me he loves his girlfriend but I am from his past and he never stopped missing me.

2007-03-14 01:56:08 · 6 answers · asked by formy p 1

well, i have a guy who has been crazy about me 4 the past 4 years. When he proposed 2 me (7 months ago), i said no. bcoz of family probs. i like him a lot, but my reputation is dat of a flirt so he keeps hearing crap about me, even tho he is in a different city (4 studies).
he says he can leev ne gal in da world 4 me.im pretty sre he really loves me.

but now he has gotten frustrated of waitin 4 me so he gonna say yes 2 one of me frenz (she has had a crush on him 4 da last 4 mths).

i need a song wich says im not sad 2 see him go, dont him back but want 2 let him know that it might have been.......

2007-03-14 01:55:33 · 5 answers · asked by Gem-in-i 2

I once met a guy who had a baby-sized one. I could not get excited.

2007-03-14 01:54:08 · 17 answers · asked by LADY 2

I would like to find that special lady, but am not interested in finding a girl who is only after my $$$

One thing that I have been doing is driving an old pickup truck (with over 200,000 miles), instead of my Viper.....that seems to actually work....do you have any other ideas?

2007-03-14 01:52:32 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is it not surprising that almost everbody admits this fact still so much money and time is spent for it? why are there so many beauticians in damand? why do men get attracted to the "beautiful" woman? what do you think?

2007-03-14 01:52:28 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why do guys keep hassling me to take off my clothes and to see my cam. When I say no they never speak to me again. I am not even sure why I bought one. It has led to nothing but me getting harrassed by men.

2007-03-14 01:50:32 · 14 answers · asked by some chic 1

my girlfriend and I have been dating for a few years now, and things were going quite well, we have had some hard times, but we have made it through. Lately like the past 6 mo she has been drinking alot, and not that thats a problem but when she gets drunk she gets mean to people around her. It doesnt really bother me when she does that to just me, but now its including my family and friends. She gets upset that people dont like her but when she drinks she tells them some mean things and people dont like that which i agree with. She tells me that i should side with her, but I dont, I cannot have a girl come between me and my family, it wouldnt work out for me. I am kinda close with my family and I wouldnt be the same person without them. Am I wrong for doing this? Should I break up with her, because this has been going on for a while and my family and friends are pretty fed up....

2007-03-14 01:49:18 · 10 answers · asked by summer24 1

2007-03-14 01:49:12 · 5 answers · asked by Mike 1

If hes paralyzed ? or does it have to be from the knees down to work?

2007-03-14 01:48:54 · 2 answers · asked by alt 2

2007-03-14 01:48:32 · 3 answers · asked by lavainya g 1

2007-03-14 01:47:18 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-14 01:46:06 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am recently divorced. While our daughter was 9 months old husband started commiting adultry. I live in a small town so there is not much to do to meet anyone.

2007-03-14 01:45:25 · 7 answers · asked by SB 2

2007-03-14 01:42:45 · 12 answers · asked by formy p 1

It happened to me many times and it scared me, i was unable to control e no matter what i did.
I jus be abset from the place and be somewhere else
and when i get back i feel so strange toward my self,people around my dear family...it feels like there is someone instead of me ....

2007-03-14 01:41:55 · 13 answers · asked by haya D 1

2007-03-14 01:39:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-14 01:37:52 · 15 answers · asked by wetdreamdiver 5

As far as facially, studies say people are attracted to the opposite sex that look like them, why?

2007-03-14 01:35:29 · 13 answers · asked by alt 2

this guy keeps texting me whenever he is out n town to see if im out in town too to meet up. i live in a different town to him but im originally from his town and often go back there.

we have met up a few times and ive stayed back at his. i havent slept with him. we have kissed.

when we are together he compliments me etc, buys me drinks and always wants to be with me. hes doesnt talk to other girls and i always catch him looking at me.

he is sometimes really flirt in his texts too!!

why does he keep us meeting up to chance tho?i really like this guy. this "set up" has been going on for over a year now. he doesnt have a girlfriend.

he does know that i came out of a serious 6 year relationship nearly a year ago now. he knew my ex but my ex has now moved away. they were never friends.

its can be months before we meet like this!

this guy is 29.

2007-03-14 01:30:54 · 23 answers · asked by jo w 1

Love

2007-03-14 01:30:31 · 3 answers · asked by Santosh H 1

someone ive been close to used to fancy me.he said i was pretty etc etc but for some reason now hes pissed off with me and he seens me with another guy [whose also my mate] hes called me all sorts of names and said im too unfit for him anyway and how im not that pretty and thats hes had prettier girls than me
i dont understand hwere all this venom has come from im schocoked.....hes insulted me for no reason and he was meant to be amate
i have put on weight im a size14/16 now
i need to lose weight anyway should i now do it not only for him but foir some reaosn hes pissed me off so much i want to show him.....im a uk size 14/16

2007-03-14 01:29:33 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have had a few dates over the internet, some good some not so good and some that have turned into fantastic friends, but what is the general feeling of internet dating? is it dangerous? is it accepted in this day and age?...hmmm lots of questions you could throw at this one!

2007-03-14 01:29:15 · 42 answers · asked by missobrien@btinternet.com 1

I missed my perion 2 monyhs in a row and im still a virgen!!! HELP!!

2007-03-14 01:28:23 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Where have all the good men gone
And where are all the gods?
Where's the street-wise Hercules
To fight the rising odds?
Isn't there a white knight upon a fiery steed?
Late at night I toss and turn and dream of what I need

2007-03-14 01:27:32 · 44 answers · asked by Funky Little Spacegirl 6

2007-03-14 01:26:17 · 8 answers · asked by Jason O 1

What if she was 7'0 tall?

2007-03-14 01:26:11 · 8 answers · asked by wetdreamdiver 5

Has a boyfriend.
He said that he liked ME.
But they broke up.

Is it even safe to date him?
Or Should I just leave him alone..

My friend means way to much to me.
but I need help?

2007-03-14 01:25:03 · 7 answers · asked by Shauna. 2