We are both 17, I have only known her for a few months but she recently has started flirting with me in and out of school, I'm not too sure what to do as she already has a boyfriend so i dont want to ask her out or start pashing her or any of that, she has a very cheery character so i'm not too sure if this is how she usually acts around her friends, but i doubt so.
So someone please help me as I have very little experience in these sorts of things.
From someone in need
2007-03-14 01:03:57 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all, if she already has a boyfriend, stay away. That would definitely be wrong. Secondly, if you feel that she is flirting with you simply ask her if she is flirting. I know that seems blunt, but if you do not know, ask.
2007-03-14 01:08:32 · answer #1 · answered by revtimothyward 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore her. Let's say, in theory, that she really DOES like you. If she is willing to flirt with you and then dump her boyfriend, odds are she'll just do it to you when the next flavor of the week comes around. You can be her friend. Heck, you can even flirt. It is fun. But just accept that it will never be more than that... in fact MAKE it so that it isn't. Otherwise you'll be the boyfriend while some other guy asks this question.
Good luck!
2007-03-14 08:07:43 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has a boyfriend already, I'd leave it alone until she decides to scrape off and finish the plate she already has. Don't get involved with her, if she is willing to do that to the boyfriend she has now, what will she do when she is with you and then she meets some one else behind your back??
Don't encourage her, walk away and find some one who isn't with some one already. You'll be much better off and a lot happier too.
2007-03-14 08:53:47 · answer #3 · answered by Cindy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mr. Taco has a point. BUT, you could probably score some quick booty if you wanted to. If thats how she is based on Mr. Taco's theory then chances are if you just wanted to knock the dust off of it a few times and when she decides to move on just say "ok it was fun". No big deal.
2007-03-14 08:16:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find your own sweetie, if she does it to him....you'll be next. It's best to check with the fellow she's dating. Make sure they broke up first. You don't sound like you deserve to get your heart broke. If they are through though, ask her to dinner at the folks house, or to a movie?. Good luck. Make sure you have some things in common and you will be o.k.
2007-03-14 08:15:05 · answer #5 · answered by Arial 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude just be yourself ......
dont get too much mind on it .. be straight .. dont keep things in minds ...have grace and be brave ... talk to her ... dont pray to her ,,,she is just a normal human being .. ok ... not an alien ... and anyways ... for girls its ur attitude which matters so just chill out and have fun with her .. dont think about much of her othre frens ... how does it matter .. u guys are not marrying right !!!!
trust me .. if u dont understant it now .. may be after 10 years u will remeber these lines .........
life rocks ...... coz i do
2007-03-14 08:41:56 · answer #6 · answered by Smarts 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋