I've been talkin to a girl through e-mail that I met in college a few years back from USC, we just got in touch again.. well we've been talking through e-mail and on the phone a lot and she said she wanted to go eat dinner and see a movie this weekend. She said she's not out looking for a boyfriend but if it did happen she would have no problem with it. What does that mean when a woman says that?? I know it seems basic but who knows??
She also seems a tough one, a lot of people she dates or dated usually end up becoming just friends.
2007-03-14 01:22:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It means she hasn't seen you in a while, so if she meets you and you've gotten fat and ugly, she will tell you she is not looking for a boyfriend.
If she sees you and you've buffed up and look like a stud, she will say, "Want to be my boyfriend?" Girls are just as superficial as guys are. They just don't admit it.
After you start dating, if you don't behave they way she likes a man to behave, she'll kick you to the curb. That's why her dates end up being just friends.
Good luck. She sounds like a maneater!
2007-03-14 01:27:59 · answer #1 · answered by am_i_helpful 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Basically, she hasn't found anyone worth sticking with yet. If you go out and something clicks, she's open to it. When women ask out guys alot of times, that's a good defense mechanism for us incase it doesn't work out. Doesn't make us sound like we are desperate for a date with that person in particular or anything. Just go out, have fun and see what happens. Never know after all that time of emailing and talking, you two may hit it off!
2007-03-14 08:27:39 · answer #2 · answered by debrenee211 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"She also seems a tough one, a lot of people she dates or dated usually end up becoming just friends. "
Oh I've heard that one a lot. Just a Friend by Biz Markie can explain this one. She just wants sexual relations right now, no serious commitnments on her part.
2007-03-14 08:26:21 · answer #3 · answered by Mista R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it means that she doesnt want to plunge into a relationship but would need ime to build it up so if u realy up for her then be patient
well the guys that flunked her they wanted something fast so they ended up losing course
just take ur chance
2007-03-14 08:36:25 · answer #4 · answered by broderm2k 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say to go out on the date with her, and if things go well, maybe she will become your girlfriend.
i think she means that she is interested in a relationship with you, but she is unsure of what you might think, so she is giving you a hint to ask her out if you like her, and like spending time with her!
have fun :)
2007-03-14 08:25:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems to me she is looking for a relationship, but if it can only be a friendship she is cool with that too. If you want to go, then go.
be cool...
2007-03-14 08:25:55 · answer #6 · answered by CC Babydoll 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it means just what she said....but she obviously likes you and wants to get together...go for it and have fun
2007-03-14 08:25:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's a cover up.. she already likes you
2007-03-14 08:51:21 · answer #8 · answered by andrew a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋