2007-03-14 01:04:45 · 19 answers · asked by missobrien@btinternet.com 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its up to you and how you feel about someone being around you 24/7...Date while young and when your old get married...
2007-03-14 01:11:13 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You have to choose that path yourself. Some people cannot be happy without someone else in their life constantly and some peple can be perfectly happy alone. Whatever happens, date and have your own llife first. When you find a person don't settle just to settle down. Some people think they have to do this when all their friends start finding thier mates for life. Find the one who makes you happy. If/when the person comes along you'll know it! If it's not a person and it's something else in life, then go for it and just date. Everyone is different.
2007-03-14 08:23:56 · answer #2 · answered by debrenee211 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To settle down with someone is a big commitment and if you love that person enough to want to spend the rest of your life with them then go for it. However, if you are still toying with the idea that if you settle down all those single nights out and fun days will be over then you need to consider things seriously in your own mind first!! A single life is totally different and there is complete freedom, to settle down means alot of compromise and commitment. xx
2007-03-14 08:19:00 · answer #3 · answered by Jaksi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just depends really on what your used too, if you have been single with your own space for a while now, it is hard to adjust to the calm settled life. I was single living life to the max then i met my partner who has now moved in, I find it boring & am really missing all the fun i used to have.........but hay..we all have to settle down at some point i'm 30 now!!
2007-03-14 08:19:03 · answer #4 · answered by sheila 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on your preference. Dating is good to get to know someone to see if they are the ideal one to settle down with. And if you find the one you want you will find it hard to just date that person because your heart will keep pulling you to settle down with that special someone
2007-03-14 08:12:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the person. People can and do live their whole lives without "settling down," and many of these people are perfectly happy. Some are not. Other people feel that they cannot be happy unless they find that "special someone."
The thing is that there are plenty of people who find "that special someone" who end up miserable and unhappy because they really only did it because they thought they HAD to. Settling down is not for everyone. Ultimately, only you can answer this question for yourself. The experience of everyone else is generally irrelevant to your own personal desires and personality.
2007-03-14 08:10:25 · answer #6 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
better to have your own life and just date if thats what you want. if you want to settle down at a later date be careful who you choose. most of my friends have ended up in bad situations from rushing things and then there was a child and they had to make the best of it then. just be careful.
2007-03-14 12:08:01 · answer #7 · answered by j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on you mate, what do you want? I'm a very happily married woman with a 4mth old baby daughter, so i would say settle down, but not everyone's relationships work out. One day you'll know the answer to this question yourself cos you'll meet that 1 person that you'll know you want to spend the rest of your life with. So only you can answer this question. Best of luck.
2007-03-14 08:11:07 · answer #8 · answered by CHELSEAGIRL 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hav ur own life and date till u are ready to settle down.
2007-03-14 08:18:18 · answer #9 · answered by Kel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dating is important or you will never know the types of people that you can have as friends. In the long run you should marry your best friend, who is someone you totally trust and care about.. this 'in love' stuff is overrrated. You don't fall out of trust unless there is a total betrayal.. but you sure can fall out of love, 2 or 3 times a week!
2007-03-14 08:10:47 · answer #10 · answered by Tapestry6 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just dating is good when you're young. But eventually, you will want someone to be there when you get home from work, to just sit and enjoy their company, and to be with only you. Time stands still for no one. If you meet this person, do not let them get a way.
2007-03-14 08:13:27 · answer #11 · answered by GirlsDeadMonster 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋