Can I get a girls point of view plz?

Question

I met a girl at a friends wedding about a month ago - she seemed really positive and fun and we talked a bit (mostly about her) and i notice she kept sitting next to me, asking me to dance, coming outside when I was..etc

She crossed my mind since so I got her number from my friends new wife. When I called I could hear she was driving so I told her I'd call back in 15. I did. she did not answer. I text her to say i dont understand the ignorance but i would take it as she is having a bad day. she text me back that night saying she had a hard day and she would be free next day should i wish to call. I called her in 5 days as i am busy. No answer. I text her the last time to say I like you so far it would be good if she could call me when she is free. 5 days later she text me apologising for not returning my call as she was busy with work and what have you. told me hey maybe give me a call during the day. looking at current trends i am no fool - she will not answer

What the hell went on?

I understand the girl is poor - so I thought maybe she has no credit on her phone. I told her if she has no credit just prank me and I'd call back, but she text me instead, using my suggestion of no credit on her phone as an excuse?

Answer 1

She isnt interested...move on

Answer 2

How do you know that she’s poor? I think you’re making an assumption that you may not have valid proof to back it up. By your own admission you got her number from your friend’s wife not from her. She may have felt that spending time with you at the wedding was fine and fun but wasn’t really interested in you. Instead of you assuming she’s not calling you back due to her being poor and suggesting that to her why not ask her if she’s interested in you. She doesn’t seem to interested and it also seems that she’s throwing you hints of her not being interested by ignoring your calls and not really calling back. It seems to me that unfortunately she’s not the ignorant one, you are for not being able to read the signs that she’s blowing you off. Sorry but you need to leave her alone and move on. Don’t call her, don’t text her and just stop allowing her to play this game of you chase her when she’s clearly showing there’s no interest there.

Answer 3

This is very interesting ; I read people's answers and wonder if they just read the same story as me . The first time you called her she was driving and you said you would call back in 15 at that point anything could have happened,,,her cell did not get second call .. she got tied up and couldn't answer...whatever .......you assumed she was "ignorant " ,and/or was having a bad day........she texts you that night with the hard day story (not the same as bad) and says she is free tomorrow..................You wait 5 days .......(you were busy?OK then )........at that point I would have written you off as not interested enough and wasting my time .................so now she gets busy too ..I am sure....... but is thinking over your waiting....and trying to decide so she gives you a last chance to do it right (call her during the day) and you do... NOTHING ........... and now you wonder what the hell happened...... when you really like someone don't wait 5 days .... do you get what happened? as for her ...I can't say if she liked you or not ... if you really like her..you need to apologize and tell tell her this got all mixed up ...that it was your fault...........ask her if she wants to try one last time and then call asap if she responds..............If your are not interested let it go .........

Answer 4

Sounds like she's not that interested but willing to talk by following your lead. You're busy so she's busy. You text, so she texts. You call 5 days later, she calls 5 days later.

It might help not to assume why she didn't answer and just ask her instead. Tell her to give you a call if she's interested and see what happens. If she doesn't call, it doesn't really change things right?

Answer 5

Why are you calling her poor. Just because she's poor she's not calling you back? Maybe you two just need to stop playing phone tag and get together like real people. If you really like her and can't seem to get ahold of her than leave her a message to meet you somewhere where you can sit and talk face to face. So you know if she doesn't show up it was not meant to be.

Answer 6

Who knows. Maybe she is busy. Maybe she is nervous. Maybe she has a boyfriend.

If you really want to see her, text her once a week with a direct offer of where to meet. Or suggest a place where YOU already go every week, someplace she can find you whenever she gets around to it.

Be careful though, unless something else is wrong, she sounds like she is either careless with other people's time and feelings or she is a bubble brain.

Answer 7

She likely is putting up a barrier. You damage her earlier and also you would possibly want to do it back. even inspite of the actuality that you say you've replaced, you want to practice it. that's going to take time yet you if she's worth it you received't options. If she did not experience some thing for you, she would not be with you. both ask her if she does love you or save exhibiting her how a lot you're taking care of her and she may basically experience tender enought to allow you to know how a lot she cares. best of success

Answer 8

You've already called her several times and she either doesn't answer or says she's "busy". If she was interested, believe me she would answer. I think if I were you I'd move on to somebody who will at least answer the phone when you call. Good luck!

Answer 9

Well I would say if she is not interested she will make up ever excuse in the world. Maybe it was one of those wedding flirtation things that don't mean nothing?

Answer 10

Shes definately not interested, Sorry.