My boyfriend works quite hard all day and most saturdays too! I wouldn't say i'm sex mad but i love having sex and when we met we used to do it ll the time, anywhere, anywhen! He's so good in bed but he's always tired when we get in by 7pm most evenings! He'll quite happily have a quickie in the morn before he goes off too work! But i want it in the evenings! Any advise or ideas grately appreciated!!!!!
I've got lots of sets of nauty undies, pretty bbydolls, cute pj short sets but i think ive worn these out and still if he's tired then he tired - help! I want to put tips to practice tonight!!!
He's suggested viagra - where can i get some quick!!!!
2007-03-14 00:56:25 · 22 answers · asked by Ebab831 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we all have lots of sex when we first meet , then we become more comfortable with each other and unfortunatly it dwindles and it is so easy not to make the effort any more. What my husband and i do is set aside a night every week and we take it in turns to cook a romantic meal, candles the works and we have a candlelit bath, sensual massage, and we talk and talk, we allow no interruptions, ie phone, t.v, etc and we just let nature take its course, we have to do it this way as we both work and we have 5 children,(maybe we should stop these nights thinking about it!lol) it works for us and yes i wear my slinkiest nightwear too, dont get stuck into a rut as things become stale and i am not saying only have sex once a week either, but if you know you have that night to look forward to it takes the pressure of and you will relax and more sex will follow naturally, good luck.
2007-03-14 01:07:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Kim an Ben. Do you ever watch the sex inspectors on channel 4?? There was a couple on there in the same situation as you n your partner. She was mad to get at him and it put him off!!! They set her a challenge that she could only touch him above the waist for one wk. Things changed so much. He started initiating all the moves and wanting her more because she wasn't as forward!! I dunno why it worked but it did.
Mayb try it yourself an don't mention anyt to your bf, as an experiment and see does it really work???!!
Good luck babes. Hope ya start gettin some!! x x x
2007-03-14 08:16:44 · answer #2 · answered by Dolly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya you must slow down u choking him and he is to good to let u know coz he doesnt want to hurt ur feelings
talk to him about it that u do appreciate the sacrifice he makes by giving u a quick one but would enjoy a full evening so he should work less in some days to save energy for u
goodluck
2007-03-14 08:14:50 · answer #3 · answered by broderm2k 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok
make a date...get him on a weekend when he's not at work...light some candles....set a romantic scene, cook some nice food, good wine... and get jiggy....i am sure he'll appreciate it...working long hours does knock the stuffing out of you....so wait till he's not working then pounce....good luck
2007-03-14 08:06:22 · answer #4 · answered by Dazzlebox 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
STOP!!!! you need to control yourself it's not that your b-friend is tired or not wanting to have sex with you it's maybe because you want to do it all the time. you should give him a break at least let him catch his breathe you just need to slow things down. and if you want a quickie in the morning just get a masturbater and satisfy your needs.
2007-03-14 08:05:11 · answer #5 · answered by kim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try stuff like getting one of those pole dance poles for the house and a disco light and smoke machine.
Toys like remote control vibrators to be used outside the house and make out outside the house
2007-03-14 08:02:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He needs to set time aside for you both. He can't work all the time or he'll end up a wreck.
You have to work at a relationship just as much as work.
2007-03-14 08:58:11 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont work so hard It can be a real turnoff to perform on que. Have you tried a bunny He might like the thought that you have a flexable friend while he's at work
2007-03-14 08:02:37 · answer #8 · answered by sandwichsparrow 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
visit him at work, im sure he wont mind it :P
or you can call him down and say theres an emergency lol
i think you can get viagra or other sex medicines at a pharmacist or chemist
good luck and have fun
2007-03-14 08:01:23 · answer #9 · answered by Wilson J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you might be better off days when he is not at work,then lay in the bed with him and play around
2007-03-14 08:06:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋