I work with this really great guy and have been attracted to him for at least 4 years. Within the past month, we have gotten somewhat intimate. We have not gone "all the way" but have talked about it like adults (stds, pregnancy, etc.) The problem is, there is a "no-fraternization" policy at our job. Which, in turn, means that most of our time spent together has to be behind closed doors. He has told me that he is not looking for a relationship, I believe him when he says this, but some of his actions dispute that. We talk every single day on the phone about trivial things, and had a mutual friend go out of town and I wanted to tell her to be careful--he told me that he had already told her for me. It's just sweet and thoughtful things like that that he does that contradict the whole non-relationship thing. I'm not looking for any kind of relationship either but I'm so confused right now-my head is spinning! Are there some men out there that can help me decipher these actions?
2007-03-02
05:21:57
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renee m
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