My girlfriend is COLD. She is very unresponsive sometimes, and I do my best to make our relationship fun. She never makes any suggestions. I mean, I make ALL the choices about where we should go, what we should do, etc. I give her ample opportunity (i.e I ask her what SHE wants to do), but all she likes to do is sit around sometimes, or she'll say, "I don't care." That is a whole other story. She is very unaffectionate physically, and well, altogether. She just doesn't seem happy to see me when I come home, etc, BUT she does love me. She has a daughter, and I am always there for them when they need me. We are moving in together soon. She never kisses me or initiates physical contact. I've talked to her about this, and she apologized from the bottom of her heart and said that she will make more of an effort, but she hasn't. Should I flip the tables and stop showing her affection, or should I continue kissing her and showing her that she is loved? I hate mind games.
2007-03-02
06:20:47
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