How do you think is it good if girl is virgin before marriage?

Answer 1

I don't think it really matters. It's a personal choice...not a real statement of her character, although it does show self control.

Answer 2

NO!

The truth is, some people just aren't compatible in bed, and that makes for a very bad marriage. You really need to find that out before you make a lifetime commitment.

Most men who want a virgin only want that because they don't want to be compared to the other man or men you have been with, because they know they would not compare favorably. Any man who wants a virgin bed will very likely dissapoint you in bed, whih is not a good thing for a marriage.

It is funny how the people with the least experience act like the have the most knowledge.

Answer 3

Yes, both the man and the woman should be virgins when they marry.
until people begin to understand the permanence of joining with someone in a sexual relationship, there will never be a consensus on this subject.
In the meantime, all you have to do is look at 10 pre marital relationships around you, ask questions, and determine for yourself what is good and bad about sex before marriage in someones life. I guarantee you will not find one person whose life it hasn't affected. Whether it's through low self esteem, trustworthiness, pride, jealousy, anger, regret, hate or any myriad of negative psychological phenomenon. The reality is, sex connects you with each other for life. You will ALWAYS have that person with you whether they are present or not.

The idea that you have to know if you are compatible is a lie, the idea that having sex outside a committed marriage is natural is a lie, the idea that it's fine because everyone is doing it is a lie. Two people who truly love each other unconditionally and who marry, will ALWAYS find sexual satisfaction together. That's what unconditional love is....
Sex is an intimate spiritual bond between one man and one woman. And that, my dear, is how it should stay.

Answer 4

I am a married man, and I love my wife very much. That said, if I had not been able to have a sexual relationship with her before we were married, I wouldn't have married her. In fact, I would never marry anyone who wanted to wait until we were married.

The reason is that sex is an important part of a long term relationship, and not everyone is sexually compatible with everyone else. I've been with women where there was no problems with either of us, we just didn't fit well together. The proper chemistry wasn't there. We didn't know we wouldn't fit until we tried. Imagine finding something like that out on your wedding night! That would kill your marriage before it's even begun.

I would not marry anyone without having a sexual relationship with them first. I also required living with them fr no less than a year before getting married, so we would know if we could stand living in the same house together.

I would also never marry someone who was a virgin before I met them. One, I would want my wife to know what she was doing. Two, I would want her to have had all of the fun she could have had before settleign down with one person, as I did. We both had experience by the time we got together, and we had time to sow our wild oats, and try things that wouldn't really work in the confines of a marriage (threesomes, orgies, bisexuality, etc.).

So, no I don't think it is good. I don't think that anyone, man or woman, should even be in a serious, monogamous relationship before the age of 25, and before they have realised their dream in life. So, if your dream is to be a doctor, you shouldn't have a boyfriend/girlfriend until you are at least 25 and actually working as a doctor. Before then, just have fun, date different people, have sex and get experience with the opposite sex (or same sex if that applies, or both if that applies).

Answer 5

That, my dear, depends completely on your future spouse. The "virgin bride" was a concept of fidelity back when people, especially women, were judged and condemned by their sexual practices before or outside of marriage. In this day and age, most western cultures couldn't care less if you are a virgin when you marry.

Answer 6

It may depend on how old the girl is! And also on how old the boy is!

The boy may oftenmost be proud of being able to say that he was one who has been there first, while it for the girl is not as easy to say, because a girl can't with utmost certainty say whether she is the first one for the boy or not.

Not being emotionally involved in it, we may even say that intelligent and fiercy people may have got "a taste of life" before they got some other taste of life. And so, not being the first time for them, it may mean that they already have some experience, and to have some pre-experience may even be deemed as being "good" by wise people, and so their "performance" may be experienced as more mature and even more reliable.

Therefore, it is good if girl is virgin before marriage if ... age and circumstances warrant it. And when this has been said, we may even dare add that ... to have blunt expectations from life is never too wise of a man with quadratic balls.

Answer 7

It's bad if that's not HER choice. You should never do things just because somebody else said so. If YOU really want to be a virgin and wait til marriage, that needs to be your sole decision. Don't save it because daddy or momma said so, save it because you said so. You have to make your own decision.

Answer 8

It's not good because virgin sex is sloppy and not as much fun as when you get better at it....it may add to the stress of the new lifestyle of being married if you are also worried about how bad the sex was....because really the first time is not all they make it out to be.

Answer 9

I think you have a lot of common sense. It is very uncommon to hear about a female waiting until marriage.I always said I was going to wait but my curiosity got the best of me when I was 19 and now at 23 I have 2 kids and am not married. ( I am with their father though)

Answer 10

If a guy is not willing to wait then that is a good clue as to why so many modern marriages fall apart. If all he sees you for is sex, you won't see him around very long.

Answer 11

It is good because:
1) she has never had expectations of sex before so she is likely to think it is good sex when there is little to compare it to.

2) you know she doesn't carry any diseases.

3) you know she has no kids

4) She is not to "expanded" in that region and will conform to another's anatomy.

5) You know she isn't a whore.