My BF is having some serious insecurities lately. I walk into his house & I'm on the phone & he gets an attitude. I'm outside 11:30 @ night & he ask me what am I doing out. Then he starts this whole arguement because he thinks I'm lying about where I've been. Then while he's taking me to work he looks at his phone 4 no reason, puts it back in pocket. He looks at his phone again & then ask me if I went through his phone while he was in the shower. I told him no, because I didn't & then he ask me again, did I go through his phone. I told him no, but of course he thought I was lying. He didn't call me after that yesterday & hasn't returned my calls today. What's up with that. I'm doing anything. I'm in the house all the time & when I go out he has a cow. How do I make this better?
2007-03-02 06:35:06 · 5 answers · asked by geminig 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's obvious that something is going on with him and I don't think you can make it better unless he's worth it. Sounds like he's cheating to me but I could be wrong. You need to investigate and find out because if he's having these behaviors and you are unaware of the incidents then he's covering for what he's doing.
2007-03-02 06:40:59 · answer #1 · answered by uneekqamar2004 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is something wrong here. There is a trust issue and I can only think of a couple of reasons for it.
He's extremely insecure.
He's got mental problems.
He's got a chemical imbalance. Thyroid imbalance can cause paranoia.
He's cheating on you. I say this because if you are a cheater, you expect someone to cheat on you. Also, if you suspect he's cheating on you and you confront him, he'll turn it right back around and say you're the one who is cheating...
The way I see it, you've only got one choice here. Try to convince him to get a check up. If it's a chemical imbalance, they have drugs. If he won't see a doctor or get professional help, it's time for you to go. He's not treating you with respect.
Good luck.
A~
2007-03-02 14:49:31 · answer #2 · answered by BigMac2xk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey... When a guy starts getting uber posessive like this, and blatently freaked out about his phone, its because he is CHEATING and is taking his guilty concious out on YOU! Next time, CHECK his cell phone. I'll bet you will find something. But next time he starts being a jerk towards you when you arent doing anything wrong, tell him... "LOOK, I dont know what crawled up your butt and died, but back off!"
2007-03-02 14:40:20 · answer #3 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is how an abusive situation starts. It would be best to extricate yourself from this relationship.
2007-03-02 14:41:27 · answer #4 · answered by danashelchan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could handle this on your own:the fellow is
wants to abuse and control you .get tough with him.tell him to f999 off.
2007-03-02 14:42:39 · answer #5 · answered by 2u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋