started dating this guy about a month and a half ago.Everythings been great until wed,i went to my gf's house to watch a movie,when I was leaving i called him and he told me to call him when I got home to make sure i got home safe(it was snowing)but I ended up falling asleep as soon as i hit the bed.he called me about an hour laterand he was Sh** faced drunk with his buddies.he had asked me on wed if i wanted to hang out on thurs and we had plans to watch a movie.when I asked him wed just to make sure we were still hanging out,he said maybe and I got kinda angry with him.He ended up hanging up on me,so i called back,he hung up again so i called back until he picked up(i know thats bad)he picked up and said that he couldnt do this and when i said does that mean we're broken up he said i guess so and hung up.I am so hurt and confused by this!What should i do?he wont pick up my calls!I really want to talk to him about this, but how.he hasnt even told anyone that we broke up.im20hes24
2007-03-02 05:22:26 · 19 answers · asked by sallyh 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like he was putting a show on for his buddies. Just curious as to how many times in a month and a half have you seen him drunk? He doesn't deserve your affections. If he behaves this way after such a short time, imagine the crap he'd probably pull down the road. You deserve better.
"Shake it off" then find a real man! :)
2007-03-02 05:34:05 · answer #1 · answered by wyld_roze 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For starters, when someone is drunk and mad it is not a good idea to keep pushing their buttons because the situation will just escalate and that will be the one thing he will remember in the morning. It is important to not waste your time with those who do not think that you are worth it and instead surround yourself with the people that care.
There is going to be a ton of those one month relationships and you should not get upset with only one. Take it as a learning experience and move on. If this prick were to call you back and want to hang out, do you think that you could even let this go with him? How do you know he won't do it again!?
2007-03-02 13:35:57 · answer #2 · answered by neve 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should learn from your mistakes. Next time a guy is in a crappy mood and you are mad at him... Give him and YOU some space to calm down. Repeatedly calling him over and over again is childish at best. Mostly just the crazy actions of a crazy girl. He is going to tell ALL OF HIS FRIENDS about this crazy girl who wouldnt stop calling him... and thats how you will be known. Good luck
2007-03-02 13:28:23 · answer #3 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW because you sound like you are 14 or 15..... leave him alone for awhile. Quit being a nag, guys hate that. You've only been together a month and half, it's not like you're even engaged. If he really likes you, he'll realize how much by spending some time alone.
2007-03-02 13:34:05 · answer #4 · answered by Jewel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your guy got issues, it aint you, all you done was forgot to call him and he called you and now he broke up with you over a missed call, you don't need him if he is going to break up with you over that what is you didn't come home what would he have done then. Girl you don't need him find you someone is . Frustrating-this is something not to be frustrated over, he got a problem.
2007-03-02 13:28:11 · answer #5 · answered by BabyGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just can't learn to love until you learn to let go. Grasp first at those things which can't be taken away from you. If you try to force feed a square shaped block into a circle shaped hole, of course you're going to get frustrated.
Kind of reminds you of Elvira from Tiny Tunes, doesn't it?
I LOVE THE LITTLE FLUFFIES, AND HOW THEY RUN AND PLAY. BUT WHEN THEY TRY TO GET AWAY I SQUEEEEZE THEM TIL' THEY STAY.
x_x
2007-03-02 13:50:02 · answer #6 · answered by Ellis26 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're 20yrs old? dont really sound like a mature person to me...at 20, you should be able to handle a situation like this by yourself......drop the dude and go on with it.....good luck
2007-03-02 13:28:50 · answer #7 · answered by The Emperor of Ecstasy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your really not smart.
you waste time arguing with a drunk
Ha Ha
Good luck
2007-03-02 13:28:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Was he drunk when he broke up with you? And if he doesn't answer your calls. Screw him! You deserve way better than this guy and that's his own loss.
2007-03-02 13:26:50 · answer #9 · answered by Erin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Save your time and let him go.
Not worth it because in the end he will just mess up some more.
2007-03-02 13:26:14 · answer #10 · answered by KleeAnn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋