checking out
2007-03-02 05:19:33 · 29 answers · asked by kittywitz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dont you look at the opposite sex????? What do you want the man to do, wear blinders???? Looking at the menu doesnt cost anything, its when you order something thats gets you in trouble!!!!!
2007-03-02 05:23:25 · answer #1 · answered by shirley e 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Looking (a glance) is harmless. Ogling is rude; totally acknowledging someone in a flirtatious manner with their eyes, while you are with them is totally disrespectful. So it really just depends to what extent his looking was. If he did a glance and it didn't go any further, then you are just being insecure and controlling. I mean they're your lover but they're not dead. I am sure you look at other good looking people as well, it's a reflex.
Relax, if it is not a totally committed situation, then don't take them so seriously.
2007-03-02 06:07:17 · answer #2 · answered by ricepat2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happens all the time. But atleast you confronted him about it and told him how you felt. Communication is very important for a good relationship. Guys will stare at other girls. It's perfectly normal and you should trust your boyfriend that he's not cheating on you and that he loves you. But if it's really hurting you and if you think that he doesn't love you anymore, then break up with this guy and move on.
2007-03-02 05:23:58 · answer #3 · answered by Erin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey.... Why does it bother you when he looks at other girls? He is WITH YOU! The more you pressure him to stop doing something that is so natural for most men, the more you are going to tear this relationship apart. Just ALWAYS remember, that you cannot control the actions of others, only your own. Focus on YOUR actions and stop worrying about everyone elses... I study psychology and its a FACT that women who make senseless rules about who a man can hang out with, what he can do when he is out, what he can look at... ruin their relationships, but it also stems from an unhappiness within themselves. Figure out why you are unhappy, and deal with it. Good luck sweets.
2007-03-02 05:23:19 · answer #4 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Have u asked him y he looks at other girls? does he just look & take his eyes away or he stares at them? if he does the latter, then he simply doesn't respect u. if it bothers u so much, tell him to stop or u'll no longer accompany him out to public places. & say it like u mean it. i know how it feels cos i've been there & it's not a nice feelin. then if u can't continue in dat condition, take a walk. u'll get ova it, we all do if we want to. good luck.
2007-03-02 05:35:43 · answer #5 · answered by nkemnonchalant 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as he is just looking and not checking them out, just chill out! I had the same problem, and I would get all worked up and strung out, but then i realized why waste my time being all upset over that?? As long as he's not cheating!! He is your lover and obviously if he is with you, he loves you and one glance at another girl is okay, because its you he looks at more than anyother girl. And come on, admit, girls check out more girls that guys do...its a proven fact. girls are insecure and wann check out their competetion. Dont sweat it. but if he is really checkin them out, lookin them up and down, kick his ***!! dont be weak!
2007-03-02 05:29:45 · answer #6 · answered by Lala.Loves.Chango 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he should respect you and not do it around you.Looking is normal I check out guys all the time but not when Im with my fiance. He has the same respect for me too, although I catch him once in a while I know its not intentional.
2007-03-02 05:24:08 · answer #7 · answered by lovebug512 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately it's in a man's nature to look at pretty girls. Looking is better than touching. Don't sweat it. Good luck with your lover ;)
2007-03-02 05:23:56 · answer #8 · answered by C L 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It never ends. Guys will *always* check out other girls. If you're secure in your relationship, and in yourself, you'll let it go.
Of course secure men, with proper manners, won't be so obvious in front of someone they care about.
2007-03-02 05:24:07 · answer #9 · answered by retropink 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are always going to look at other women. It is in their nature as a man. There is nothing wrong with looking, and you need to be more secure with yourself. He is with you, right? Don't worry about it or you will push him away.
2007-03-02 05:59:31 · answer #10 · answered by tiffantre 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell you that its only natural for a guy to look at other women. God made you women so perfect it would be crazy for guys not to look. I would be more concerned that he wasn't looking cause that might mean he likes playing for the same team.
It sounds to me like you have a Battle w/ insecurity
2007-03-02 05:24:38 · answer #11 · answered by t_buck70 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋