i met this gurl that was from my highschool.we have alot in common and everthing between us is going great like we ve datedfor years, although we are not in an "official" relationship.but im confused if i like her! somtimes i like her and somtimes i feel as if i dont. we dont meet often, but we keep close contact through txt msgs and calling. i dont care of how she looks that much, im not like that, she is beautiful in her own way. she likes me alot too. i need to know what to do, continue talking to her, with my fluctuating feelings, or end what we have grown together? im 17 years and she is 18, can it be genuine liking or infatuation? help me!
2007-03-02 05:04:08 · 7 answers · asked by lyrical.disaster 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
what does it mean if i cant tell if i like her or not. i will be honest, its been a long while since a girl admitted her feelings to me. i was in desperate need for a girlfriend always. what do you think is my problem? is it other girls? is it my brain? is it her? is God testing me? basically this gurl is heaven sent, i prayed to God for true love! i dont want to get in further in this to mess things up later! honestly i know my answer... let me know what you think...
2007-03-04 15:01:20 · update #1
I don't think you should end a friend ship just because you don't know if you like her in the "relationship" sense of it all. I think you should just continue that way you have and see what happens from there. I really don't think you should push the issue. If you are both comfortable being friends and no more for now then leave it that way. GOOD LUCK
2007-03-02 05:10:41 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ Nikkee D ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like both really like each other. and you could say that you are a one of a kind guy cause you cant find alot of guys who dont really care about a girls appearence too much. Dont end it your relationship keep going. Good Luck
2007-03-02 13:09:58 · answer #2 · answered by xpoisonousxinjectionx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you think she is beautiful in her own way, thats really sweet. try to get your feelings straight and try to make a list of pros and cons about the relationship, and see what gets more. all you can do , really, is to talk to her & tell her your problem. she might get hurt, but its for the best.
2007-03-02 13:08:58 · answer #3 · answered by Ari ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure you like her but just not in a way that you her as your girlfriend. If you don't like her sometimes then just stay in the friend zone.
2007-03-02 13:09:39 · answer #4 · answered by curtis t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truly DID like her... you'd be wondering what to do. DING-DING-DING that's what you're doing! It sounds like your totally into her! Ask her out and at least try to go out with her! If not... just be honest with her!!! Girls love it when you're honest!
2007-03-02 13:10:17 · answer #5 · answered by Seneca 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude.....what the hell are you waiting for.......ask her out or tell her how you feel.....if it was meant to be it will work out if it doesn't oh, well, you are sooo young that there are tooo many girls for you to hang on one!!
2007-03-02 13:21:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her out
2007-03-02 13:08:43 · answer #7 · answered by Guitar Girl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋