I have been with my gf for 11 months, and there is no passion in our relationship. I guess I had better lay all the variables on the table to get the best answer possible. First, my gf has a disability, so maybe her lack of attention and passion is due to insecurity. Secondly, she has a 4 year old daughter who she takes care of. She had bad relationships in the past. About one month ago, she finally said that she loved me. I love her too, but our relationship is so routine. She seems so cold sometimes. She hardly ever shows affection. I communicated with her twice about her lack of affection and she says that she doesn't mean to be inattentive. Now, I don't need tons of attention, but she NEVER initiates anything. We've had sex only five times since we've been together. She says that sex doesn't do anything for her and it never has. She does have orgasms through clitoral stimulation, however, so we usually end up doing that. I am 24 and she is 30. I love her and her
2007-02-28
03:55:11
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mspideyman2007
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