I pretty much have to date them. Would you?
2007-02-28 03:44:57 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I date whatever is attainable due to being overweight and poor.
2007-02-28 03:53:24 · update #1
If you don't enjoy dating heavy women then don't date them. Not liking a woman because she is heavy is not wrong, or being a jerk, it's just personal preference, like preferring blondes over brunettes, or apples instead of oranges. Each person has a different mental picture of their ideal partner and no matter how hard they try that picture is pretty much impossible to change. Keep in mind, however, that changing someone's weight is a lot easier than changing someone's personality. Your best bet is to find someone who you love spending time with and try to lose weight together (if they actually want to lose weight, some big girls like themselves just where they are). The bit about being poor shouldn't help or hinder you as long as you maintain a positive attitude about your life. Positivity might even help give you that extra oomph to allow you to work your way up the pay ladder.
2007-02-28 05:05:14 · answer #1 · answered by Deevonimon534 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well lets look at it this way. Would you want a woman to date you for what you weigh or the way you act and are??? Like they always say look at the interbeauty of a person.
2007-02-28 04:05:13 · answer #2 · answered by lz_adam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know what i am a woman that is over 200 lbs and i take this question very offensively there is nothing wrong with us other than your image to your friends you know most of us big girls cant help it and its pricks like yall is why we go through depresion i can garantee u just about any big girl is gonna treat you a whole lot better than any skinny girl ever thought she could but that is just my opinion i just think its kinda rude to post a question up like that it hurts peoples fellings
2007-02-28 03:52:05 · answer #3 · answered by tabitha j 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why do you say you pretty much HAVE to date them? It is not like you are being forced, now are you?
I do not date 200lbs women, but I do have 300lbs boyfriend. I love him cause his belly is not the only thing that is FAT, if you catch my drift!
2007-02-28 03:51:16 · answer #4 · answered by marquella_la_nice 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on how you feel about it. Weight should not be the main reason whether you should date her or not. If you like her, go ahead and have some fun.
2007-02-28 03:52:06 · answer #5 · answered by Kimora Miranda 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry but your question is quite offensive, what is wrong with women around 200lbs, you know those of us who are have pretty good personalities, my fiance loves me for who I am and not my weight, are you so blind to what is on the inside,
2007-02-28 04:55:27 · answer #6 · answered by scarlett13854 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you have to date them? Do you weigh the same?
There's nothing wrong with it but if it isn't your deal then don't date them!
2007-02-28 03:49:29 · answer #7 · answered by Sorcha 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are dating them , then why would you worry about others if they will date or not. some will and some will not. .It all depends on the circumstances.
2007-02-28 03:56:14 · answer #8 · answered by Iqbal 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well thats on you if you want to date that women and if you like her why not that doesnt matter how much she weights, all it matter what she has to offer you and her heart...
2007-02-28 03:49:46 · answer #9 · answered by Sunrise 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm not far from that and my fiancee loves me to pieces. We just got engaged last week, and I know he'll love me for who I am, regardless. You sound like a jerk.
2007-02-28 03:52:57 · answer #10 · answered by melouofs 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋