This girl thinks i played her and that i share my feelings for her and played her with some other girl.
I persist on assuring her that she's the ONLY girl i love and that I didn't play her and that I would NEVER play her [cuz i'm not a cheater] but she always asks me, "how am i supposed to believe you"
I mean, i don't blame her, lotsa people tell her lotsa [false] stuff about me...
But I really love her and don't wanna lose her and I know that if i just give up and leave, she'll be DEVASTATED and I don't wanna know she's unhappy when I could be making her the happiest girl in the world (like i was before this argument).
Please help me, I really love this girl...
2007-02-28 04:00:34 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go to her, take ur laptop with u, delete every messenger, myspace, chat, facebook and personal profile account you have. Delete every picture of any girls other than her... Delete every phone number in your cell for any girl other than her and family.... and give her a rose.
If that doesnt work, ur screwed!
2007-02-28 04:06:08 · answer #1 · answered by Slacker34 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
There's obviously something you are doing that makes her believe that you don't truly love her. Most women get very insecure at times. You need to baby her. Treat her like she is the only person in the world. If you truly do love her, you would put her needs first. The best thing to do is COMPLIMENT her! Tell her how beautiful she is. Explain to her that it bothers you that she doesn't believe you when you tell her she loves you. Honesty is always best in a relationship. If she is still insecure and refuses to believe you, she may have a self-complex. It's really not her fault, but a psychological imbalance. You should decide now if you want this relationship rather than hurting her much more down the road.
2016-03-13 22:42:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i kinda felt the same way about my bf...think about it. have you ever done anything special for her out of her heart or do you just say "take my word for it"...girls build up walls and are insecure bcuz of all the stupid jerks out there but what she's looking for is reassurance. she's looking for the right words. guys have problems expressing what they feel and girls can come out easily. it's could be the way you act, if you're flirtacious she becomes insecure and unsure. just reassure her and tell her that the other girl is meaningless to you and that no matter what happens you'll always love only her. maybe add some more stuff but yeah that's the basic idea. if you can manage to say the right things then a girl is yours forever :D
2007-02-28 04:10:01 · answer #3 · answered by kimcml 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Telling her you love her is not nearly proof enough as just showing her you love her. Relationships are based on trust (or should be). And as for the "false stuff" that's being told to her about you... well, what's the history with that cause it didn't just come out of nowhere... there has to be a backstory or some truth to it somewhere whether that means you've actually done that before or someone's trying to get back at you for something. But if she doesn't trust you now, she probably never will and you just need to move on. I wouldn't waste my time with someone who already had their mind made up about me and chances were that it is going to stay that way.
2007-02-28 04:15:30 · answer #4 · answered by Love Me or Hate Me... 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
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This girl thinks i played her and that i share my feelings for her and played her with some other girl.
I persist on assuring her that she's the ONLY girl i love and that I didn't play her and that I would NEVER play her [cuz i'm not a cheater] but she always asks me, "how am i...
2015-08-15 08:24:52 · answer #5 · answered by Brand 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is this untrusting now, you are beyond doomed. You have to decide if you want to spend every waking moment with this woman trying to prove yourself innocent of some perceived offense. If you think it is worth it, I'm at a lose for solid advice because my suggestion is cut bait and run. Life is hard enough without having to justify every word and breath you take to someone else.
2007-02-28 04:36:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love her you must then be willing to lose her! You can only tell her you never cheated on her and if she doesn’t believe you then you done all, you’ll never change her mind, and if she believing her friends you fighting a up hill battle.
Sorry to say it guy you can tell her until you blue in the face you love here, but it comes down to want she thinks, don't kill yourself up inside if she never comes to believing you, just step back and let go if she loves you she'll come back and if not then it wasn't meant to be.
I wish you will.
2007-02-28 04:14:50 · answer #7 · answered by choiceav 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you KNOW that if you just give up and leave and she'll be DEVASTATED then that means she really cares for you too.. you just needa give her time and effort to the point where she will trust you and not think you're one of those play boys. if you really love her, then you should give her time. when she needs someone to confide in, then be there for her. she'll soon realize what kinda person you really are and she'll come to you.
2007-02-28 04:08:06 · answer #8 · answered by Ms Sinful Azn 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Write cards, buy flowers, tell her what you've just said. Leave notes under her pillow, in her pockets. There are plenty of things you can do, just use your imagination.
It's not easy, it will take time if she doesn't trust you just yet....
2007-02-28 04:13:59 · answer #9 · answered by jol22n 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you really love this girl...tell her...if she doesnt believe you then show her. give her the best day she has ever had. tell her that everything she has heard bout u (that is false) isnt true. tell her the truth. Just show her you really love her. I think she should come around to believing you. I hope that helps
2007-02-28 04:06:35 · answer #10 · answered by underoathrockr92 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋