he says he loves me but can he if going threw a divorce
2007-02-28 03:45:03 · 12 answers · asked by usnavybrat14 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes he can love you . Going through a divorce is tough on a person , but you must be very supportive of his decision and men like a good friend around to help them . He just happened to fall in love . Going through a divorce is giving all desires of wanting that women up . He no longer can love her which leaves his heart open to love someone else and that person is you . GOOD LUCK !!! Best Wishes !
2007-02-28 03:57:18 · answer #1 · answered by Me777 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I loved someone else while I was going through my divorce. I actually met him the day my (now ex) husband moved out and we started a great friendship. My ex dragged on the divorce for a couple of months (even though he was the one who filed in the first place) and by the end of the divorce the other guy and I were in love. We are now living together and have been together going on two years now and I've never been happier... so to answer your question, yes... it's possible... however, I don't believe that real love throughout a divorce happens a lot... more like rebound "I think I'm in love because you're not the one I'm getting divorced from"... but who knows... he might actually truly love you not just through the divorce but for the rest of your lives... you are right to use caution... just see where it goes... you'll know after everything is final and you've been together for a little while...
2007-02-28 03:58:58 · answer #2 · answered by Love Me or Hate Me... 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that there are two possibilities here, but in either case it is unlikely that he is in love with you. (1) People tend to seek out some sort of security and stability when they are going through a break-up or a divorce. You are providing that security and stability for him, so it leads him to believe that he has feelings for you, but it is unlikely that this feeling is love. Mostly likely, you are merely someone for him to turn to for comfort, so you make him feel good. (2) He does not feel anything for you. He knows it, but he chooses to deceive you because you make him happy while he is going through a difficult time.
I know, you are thinking that there is a third possibility…a possibility that he loves you. I say, do not get into a relationship with until one year after the divorce is completed. The year will give him time to heal and discover who he is and what he wants. If he says that he loves you after that, it is probably true.
There are plenty of guys out there...find one that is happily single. There will not be a threat of him returning to his soon to be exwife. Plus, it will be a lot more fun for you!
I hope this helps.
2007-02-28 04:11:35 · answer #3 · answered by Go Dré! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is possible at any time during your life but remember that judgement tends to be clouded when going through particularly difficult times. If they just separated and now he is with you, I would say this won't last....if they have been sep. for a long time and are still working thru the divorce, that is a bit better. And if you are the first person he has seen/been with since his separation, I would not invest alot of emotion since you will probably end up being the rebound person......there is ALWAYS a rebound person ~ it sucks but it's true.
2007-02-28 03:55:14 · answer #4 · answered by Clarissa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it may be possible for him to love you even thou he goin throu a divorce but most likely he's not in love with you because basically he stressed out and really he doesn't know what he wants but one day he'll grow into loving you but right now he's probably confuses
2007-02-28 03:50:11 · answer #5 · answered by zorin l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he very well could, but a lot of things will change for him while he is going thru all of this. Be careful and look out for yourself!
2007-02-28 03:53:34 · answer #6 · answered by Lolabella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this the same guy with the kids that you are looking for help with while you also work and go to school? They guy you had the baby with?
2007-02-28 03:53:10 · answer #7 · answered by tcg7213 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if he does THREW but he might through
2007-02-28 03:49:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he has a lot in his mind right now, so i'd tell you to watch out for a "rebound" label somewhere.
2007-02-28 03:48:36 · answer #9 · answered by dianabarff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes but stay away from his wife..ahum ex
2007-02-28 03:49:22 · answer #10 · answered by AC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋