ok.this is the problem.i have a boyfriend and i luv him soooooo much. well i talked to one of my ex-boyfriends (which i havent seen or talked to in almost 3years)and we talked for like a hour on the fone about how we had changed and he told me that he still liked me alot.i told my boyfriend and he didnt wrry about it.so i know he trust me.the problem i have is that my ex plays baseball at the same school i play softball at and we see each other ALOT now. i'm scared that he might make a move(like kiss me or something like that).so wat should i do about this?plz help me
2007-02-28 04:03:28 · 16 answers · asked by rock chic3 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you really like the boyfriend you are dating now, then don't get to close to the old one. That means no "innocent lunches", try to keep phone conversations short but polite, and don't let the old boyfriend move into any territory or activity that you specifically enjoy with the new boyfriend. You might even try to get your current one to help you practice in case the old one does try to make a move on you so that you don't panic and do something foolish. Whether you bring the idea up or not is your choice but the new one seems like he would be okay with it if he trusts you enough to talk on the phone for an hour with your ex.
Good Luck
2007-02-28 04:15:26 · answer #1 · answered by Deevonimon534 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay. You've asked this exact same question 7 times in the last two days. 5 of those times, you have picked a best answer. And then you ask it again. What are you looking for? You know what you want to do. Do it. Quit looking for people to agree with you. Quit changing your mind. Quit whining ' what should i do' (or at least, please learn to spell the word what.) You really need to stop obsessing over little things like this. A few months ago, you asked the same question over, and over, and over. Did you learn anything from that? Doesn't sound like it. Time to start growing up and making some decisions on your own. Stop asking everyone else to run your life.
Plus, at fourteen, you should be worried about school. Not sex.
Long Live Jambi
2007-02-28 20:04:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Inform the ex bf that you are now seeing another. Let him know out right that you are not interested in renewing your relationship, but only look at him as a friend now. Keep it simple and to the point. If he is a noble guy, he will respect that. If not, and he tries to put the moves on you in the future, you will be discovering that he is not very trustworthy and noble and you would know that you don't want to be associated with the untrustworthy, right?
2007-02-28 12:09:13 · answer #3 · answered by Kerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have some self respect AND respect for you current boyfriend and refuse to kiss you ex. Did you really need us to answer the question?
You know the right and wrong thing to do. I suspect you're asking because you still have feelings for the ex and probably would kiss if he made a move. You should be honest with your current bf.
2007-02-28 12:07:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
if he tries to make a move, let him know that you're in a relationship and don't think of him that way. he should understand. my question is how did the two of you end up talking on the phone, who called who? if he called you, chances are he recently broke up with someone and is looking for an easy rebound.
2007-02-28 12:08:55 · answer #5 · answered by kill_kiddo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never once said you did not have feelings for your Ex. So I am thinking you are anticipating the moment for him to kiss you or make a move.
2007-02-28 12:09:30 · answer #6 · answered by I'm Michael Jackson BAD!! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't put yourself in a position to be "moved on". Keep your distance and if he invades your personal space, make it clear that isn't acceptable to you.
Also, work on your spelling and typing...that should be more of a focus than boys, and will do much more to benefit you in the long run.
Good luck!
2007-02-28 12:08:11 · answer #7 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try to seperate yourselves, keep yourself at a distance. And just be friendly. Now you're out of reach, you're going to be even more of an object of desire
2007-02-28 12:09:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you still like your exboyfriend or you wouldn't care if you see him alot. You've got to pick one and let the other one know that you only like him as a friend.
2007-02-28 12:08:25 · answer #9 · answered by imNangel270 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Break up with your current boyfriend first. Don't be a cheater!! You want your ex back it sounds like anyway.
2007-02-28 12:08:45 · answer #10 · answered by Ellyn 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋