Singles & Dating - 26 February 2007

Ok I was in a relationship 1 and 1/2 years ago and it all ended with her admitting she never loved me. Ever since I have been single, not even one date. I am 23 years old, go to school and always seem to get rejected or just lead on, girl seems interested, gives me her number, says to call her, than never answers her phone. I am very polite but still don't let people walk over me, I dress right, clean cut, go to church and have seen a lot of the world as I lived in Germany for awhile as an exchange student. Love just seems to ignore me for some reason and seems to go in favor of other people instead. It got to the point where I get very down because I am alone and frustrated with seeing all of my friends with people. I hate hearing people say I am handsome and attractive because it doesn't seem to be true if I am still single. I feel like swearing of dating forever. I am tired of let love find you answers, because it feels like I am waiting for a train that won't come or waiting for something to happen that won't. I feel like I am waiting for a train that will never come. It hurts so much to feel that life and love have passed me by so fast I never had the chance to grab on. Or maybe they just passed by so fast I never saw them coming. Is it because I am 23, living at home, and finally graduating from a community college? Am I just overreacting or is this a sign of things not meant to be?

2007-02-26 14:44:22 · 6 answers · asked by trancemix 2

I am 47, good health and take take of myself. I act and look much younger than I am. I have been dating a 30 year old woman for a little over a month now. We get along great, conversation is good as well as the physical connection. She is divorced and says I make her feel special. I really care about her and want some advice on how to proceed or whether most women out there around 30ish think I am way too old for her. What do you think?

2007-02-26 14:43:35 · 18 answers · asked by joey_z40 2

The problem is you showed a lot of interest and really are interested but just not right at this moment in time.

2007-02-26 14:42:38 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am eleven and if you say i should not like girls or whatever please dont

2007-02-26 14:41:08 · 11 answers · asked by Walter B 1

2007-02-26 14:40:12 · 16 answers · asked by kristi m 1

iv been in love with somebody who doesnt love me, we have been sexually active with eachother but this was a year and a half ago and i never see him anymore, theres alot more to my ''sad'' story but it will take too many pages, i just wanto move on and not think about him , but my love is always on my mind.

2007-02-26 14:40:03 · 4 answers · asked by SugaLova 2

so i really like this girl in my class. i've known her for a few months. i want to give her a hug really badly too. she isn't flirtatious and she doesn't want a bf and thats what she says to everybody. i heard from one of my friends that she thought i was hot and she always waves at me in the hall with excitement. i see her twice in the day. how do i give her a hug without makin it seem really weird?!?

2007-02-26 14:39:27 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hey boys how big is your Ego? lol My boyfriend is allllways boasting about how he has a six pack, n how he could have any girl he wanted.... This kindof makes me think he is taking me for granted, we go really well together n I love him, no doubt! but im not sure that he feels the same way about me, & seriously if i was sitting on his bed in my underwear with all the lights down low when he came home.... before anything he would have to go check out his muscles in the mirror n drool over himself..... Is this something all guys go through or should i get out of this relationship????

2007-02-26 14:38:36 · 8 answers · asked by bita-b 1

I'm almost 21 and a junior in college. I just got accepted into Physical Theraphy school, I'm a successful college athlete, I'm attractive and fit, I have plenty of friends and I get along great with my parents. I'm in no way a miserable person!

...But every once in a while I get this little tingle of fear that I might not find that "special someone." I have fun with my friends and meeting new people, but it just seems like I'm a lot more mature than most guys my age. I'm not one of those girls that always has a boyfriend, and lots of my guy friends have told me that I'm "one of those girls that just looks like she must be taken." What does that mean?! I always tell myself that I'll find someone, but I worry a little sometimes.

Surely I'm not the only person who feels this way sometimes, right?

2007-02-26 14:37:38 · 23 answers · asked by ♥ it's katie 5

On valentines day My bf Andrew ignored me all day, and his friends started to tell me Has he Told you yet? and of course I got worried, I thought he was going to break up with me. I went home almost crying, then the doorbell rang. Andrew was there, with a teddy bear, and a bouqie of flowers, he asked " Will you be my valentine?" In releif i sighed and said "Awww of course I will." He took me out to a fansy diner, and even planned ahead and got a violin to play. Unfortinatly, he told me he was mving to Argentina in a month. I still love him and always will.

You guys have any stories?

2007-02-26 14:36:19 · 9 answers · asked by Jaannaaaa <33 2

It's a form of relaxation and of course with your special someone and with candles it's soooooo romantic. What's your opinion girls about guys and bubble baths. I like the idea of a man being secure enough with his maleness and takes a nice soothing bubble bath.

2007-02-26 14:35:43 · 4 answers · asked by art_girlt 3

Hes confided in me that hes really curious to know what it would be like to try my pantyhose. He has always complimented me and paid extra attention to how my legs look when I wear pantyhose to the office for work or out for dinner etc. Part of me was unsure about letting him try at first. But I'm also thinking why not, if hes so curious, let him give it a try to experience how it feels. I'm really glad that hes confided in me with this, so Im leaning towards letting him do it as a reward in my own mind for being so open with me. Hes a wonderful husband and we have been married for about 9 years, and hes been really supportive of my feelings and career, etc. Just wondering what some of the other women out there think of letting him try or have similar expereinces.

2007-02-26 14:34:58 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

what are some cute things to say to my boyfriend? [i am 16, nothing dirty. we are not sexual.. we just kiss] for example
me: hey guess what!
him: what??
me: i love you!

or : just an unexpected kiss on the cheek

what are some things i could say/do to him that are cute? nothing dirty please. thanks!!

2007-02-26 14:32:32 · 2 answers · asked by ashley y 2

2007-02-26 14:30:01 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

It goes like this: "Friendship often ends in love; but love in friendship-never."
I don't know if I believe it, but it seems to be the case a lot with me. What do you think?

2007-02-26 14:28:28 · 24 answers · asked by Blondie 2

I've been seeing this guy for one month,going out on dates and things like that and we've been intimate twice. He just moved to town and recently broke it off with someone that was horrible to him. We haven't talked about being a couple because he says he's still hurt and wants to take things slow. The only problem is that we totally click and are extremely attracted to one another but sometimes if I ask to come over he'll say he wants to rest or just chill out. I can't tell him that I don't like being put off because I'm not his girlfriend. I don't know if this means he's dating other people. I've been trying to wait for him to ask me out more than once a week, but he hasn't. Do you think he may be here playing the field and not wanting to settle down again so soon? Or do you think he's just trying to get to know me so he can be certain he doesn't make any mistakes he made with his ex?

2007-02-26 14:27:34 · 4 answers · asked by Sash2000 1

Wow! I met this guy last week and he asked me out on a date. Ever since we have been hanging out everyday! I really think that I am falling in love with this guy. We have such a connection. He has even told me that he has never felt this way about anyone before and that he thinks he is falling in love with me. Is this bad? I met his son and everything. I mean I am on cloud nine, is it bad to get too serious too soon?

2007-02-26 14:26:56 · 18 answers · asked by ? 1

is it wrong to date the best friend to the guy you were just in love with (but that guy fell in love with another girl and broke your heart)?

2007-02-26 14:26:27 · 8 answers · asked by coolio 4

Please help me!

2007-02-26 14:25:31 · 6 answers · asked by music_maniac244 1

Ok, this is a bit corny asking for help on the internet, but I lack other options. Ok so im a sophmoore in high school and there is this girl that i've been estatic over for the past year and a half. During my freshman year I know for a fact that she did like me (flirting, shyness, starring,ect), but this "crush" of hers kind of died down for awhile.... I was too chicken to ask her out at the time. SO now my 10th grade year rolls round, and i've gotten up some nerve and gave her some flowers on valentines day, she really liiked it it seemed, but it was kind of if'y wheather or not she was just being nice. To go along with this, i've been doing a play that just aired at our local church, which she also infact attended. I was the lead actor and when the curtain call came around, I would go out and I could pick her whisteles and screams out from the large croud. So heres my dilemma, do I just continue and see how things play out? And does she even like me?

2007-02-26 14:24:48 · 6 answers · asked by John T 1

What should I do? What do u think?
This guy that I like just broke up with his girlfriend about a week ago, and lately he's been flirting with me. Just to let you know we're friends. You see on the same day they broke up, he told me he loved me. But I don't know if he was joking joking, or try to make me think he was joking and he was really serious. You see him and one of his friends was messing around with me in a good way. Then his friend told him to be nice then he said I love you. What do you think? By the way I think she broke up with him for another guy. Do u think he likes me or not? What should I do? Also, today he said he could see me as a Playboy. Also, he said he could see me in the Playboy Mansion. Please Help!!

2007-02-26 14:24:38 · 12 answers · asked by Twinkie 2

a periculticar boy i met over the internet who i had no romanctic interest what so ever gave me his # a while after we began chatting and over the months he just seemed so interested in me so i started likking him too and now were supposed to go this a concert and his all of a sudden tells me there no chance for us to ever go out b/c i live in nj while he is in pa and some others reasons he didnt say....i was kinda all excited to go now im really now...i cried after he told me that and it seems like every girl he tell me about has a crush on him and hes still telling me he likes me.....:(

2007-02-26 14:24:05 · 10 answers · asked by ^MomentaryInsanity^ 3

Ok so me and my gf had our fall out yesterday and we're talking about it and now she wants me to prove i love her as much as i say i do. I want to do something romantic and sweet but i don't know what to do. Does neone have ne suggestions?

2007-02-26 14:24:03 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok there is a guy that I see only once a week. I really like him but I dont ever know what to say because we both have our own friends and activities so I can't talk about those....Whats a good conversation starter or something?

2007-02-26 14:23:51 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

she told me that she have gotten drunk and kissed rihanna's(her friend) boyfriend. and yes its the first time, and we havent talked for 2 days now. she calls but i dont answer beacuase im afraid what im going to say. I just dont know.

2007-02-26 14:23:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My bf and I have been dating for 6 months (we're both in school together). He dated his ex for 3 years. She lives across the country. He may be offered an internship in his hometown, where she works. He told me tonight that he's worried that if he goes home for the summer, they will get back together. He said he loves me and really cares about me, but that she has been a huge part of his life, so he thinks that it's a legitimate possibility that they'd get back together since he'd be so far away from me and spending time with her. He said he doesn't want to hurt me, he could just see things falling back into old habits. He also said if he stays here for the summer, there's no doubt in his mind that we'll keep dating. I'm not sure what to think. On the one hand, I appreciate his honesty, but what am I supposed to do? I mean, I guess there's a chance I'd get back with my ex if we were in the same city. Is this weird? What should I do?

2007-02-26 14:22:40 · 5 answers · asked by skichamonix515 3

my parents wont let me see my bf ever,he get good grades, he dresses well, he did ask me for sex and with protection but he said if im not ready dont do it. and hes a really sweet guy. the only problem my parents would never let me take the bus to go anywhere with him. i havent seen him for 2 years i only can interact with him through the comp and phone then he came back in feb 14th and left but i wont breakdown crying again cause i cant see him anymore. So what should i do? im 13 btw

2007-02-26 14:22:39 · 7 answers · asked by Tanya S 1

how would u like to get asked?

2007-02-26 14:22:03 · 20 answers · asked by Jay a 2

This girl has said hello to me every day since December, either in class or in the hall. She once offered to give me a ride to my car (1/4 mile). She asks me questions about myself sometimes. She has pointed out similarities we have on a few occasions.

She just seems to be into me. I just met her this year, so it is not like we are friends, just acquaintances . I feel like a real jerk since I havn't done anything, and I know the perfect time I can.

what do you think? is she into me?

2007-02-26 14:20:29 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

i'm 19 and this guy is 24 and engaged (i think he knows i think he is a little cute) but tends to be flirty then disrecpects me but he thinks its funny, one of the things he does is that he bitches about me not bussing his tables and threatens not to tip, but i buss his tables in front of his face, then he'll be nice , say hi to me and try to get know me, then he'll make remarks and say i get offended easily and will keep going on about it, he will say things like "your sweater is ripped,do you wanna show off your nice tan", he always asks how old i am after i have told him

he also wanted to know my schedule at the community college i go to b/c he goes there too and he said" so when are you there so i can hide from you", that's also when he wanted to know where i was from and he got concerned for me when i told him i didn't like school, what to do?

2007-02-26 14:19:55 · 11 answers · asked by precious 1