she told me that she have gotten drunk and kissed rihanna's(her friend) boyfriend. and yes its the first time, and we havent talked for 2 days now. she calls but i dont answer beacuase im afraid what im going to say. I just dont know.
2007-02-26 14:23:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well, you are in a difficult position. some people think that being drunk should cancel everything out. personally, i think that's crap. you just have to really think about it and decide what your relationship is worth. ask yourself if you can trust her, because if you end up getting back together and you don't feel you can trust her than you'll only make the relationship more uncomfortable and painful in the end. in the end, it's only up to you. if you choose not to take her back, that would be completely understandable. Cheating in a difficult thing to deal with. I wish you luck.
2007-02-26 14:42:12 · answer #1 · answered by snowy_alp 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If all she did was kiss someone else but didn't sleep with him because she was drunk, it's not that big of a deal. If you have any kind of affection for her, you should be able to forgive her for that. But there may be a deeper issue. She still might be searching for the "one". Plus, why would she tell you - maybe to hurt your feelings or make you break up with her (because that's what she really wants). You say you haven't talked in 2 days. Well, what you really need to do is sit down and talk. Talk about everything. Lay it out there. Make an agreement before you talk that no matter what is said, when you are finished talking, the two of you will go your separate ways and not see each other for a couple days. Both of you think over everything that was said. After two days, get back together and decide where you stand with each other and what each of you wants out of the relationship. It might be that the two of you have outgrown each other.
2007-02-26 22:34:02 · answer #2 · answered by truthseeker221 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't forgive, but if you can still trust her give her another chance at least.
She may have been drunk, and **** happens. Just ask for her 100% honesty. You could have found out from someone else, and not her. It took some balls for her to tell you.
2007-02-26 22:35:42 · answer #3 · answered by BretFTW 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm assuming you're very angry even though it's her first time. But you have to decide what other things you feel and bring them out to her. If you think you can keep trusting her, and wouldn't feel weird knowing she kissed someone else's guy...then I think you should give her another chance. If you're doubting it a lot, then it's better if you end it. You know her personally and know if she's a person worth trusting again.
2007-02-26 22:29:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Can you honestly say that there is trust in your girlfriend.
Anytime you love or care for someone honesty is important.I think you two could never be an honest couple.
2007-02-26 22:29:31 · answer #5 · answered by sharen d 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump her if she is a new girlfriend
Say that you overreacted and willing to give her another try if you have history with her,aka I'm only 11 so my advice might be stupid
2007-02-26 22:30:53 · answer #6 · answered by Walter B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES-YES-YES-BREAK UP NOW AND SAVE YOURSELF PAIN IN THE LONG RUN.
2007-02-26 22:29:10 · answer #7 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋