Ok I was in a relationship 1 and 1/2 years ago and it all ended with her admitting she never loved me. Ever since I have been single, not even one date. I am 23 years old, go to school and always seem to get rejected or just lead on, girl seems interested, gives me her number, says to call her, than never answers her phone. I am very polite but still don't let people walk over me, I dress right, clean cut, go to church and have seen a lot of the world as I lived in Germany for awhile as an exchange student. Love just seems to ignore me for some reason and seems to go in favor of other people instead. It got to the point where I get very down because I am alone and frustrated with seeing all of my friends with people. I hate hearing people say I am handsome and attractive because it doesn't seem to be true if I am still single. I feel like swearing of dating forever. I am tired of let love find you answers, because it feels like I am waiting for a train that won't come or waiting for something to happen that won't. I feel like I am waiting for a train that will never come. It hurts so much to feel that life and love have passed me by so fast I never had the chance to grab on. Or maybe they just passed by so fast I never saw them coming. Is it because I am 23, living at home, and finally graduating from a community college? Am I just overreacting or is this a sign of things not meant to be?
2007-02-26 14:44:22 · 6 answers · asked by trancemix 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hey, i wish ur fine, but i know this is not the case coz i am in the same situation. the feeling of being single and nobody caring about you in a special way is owfull. but, u must fill ur life with things to do. may be you will find her in your way. when you are far from the picture, you can see it well, but when you get closer, you cant see, i think this quote works for it.
try to work on improving urself, building ur knowledge, taking courses, so that when she comes, finding you the right person to choose.
good luck
2007-02-27 00:14:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, It is so distressing tohear a story like yours. There is in fact someone out there for each and everyone of us. I believe this to be true, because at 38 and still being single myself, I have to believe that. Don't be so hard on your self. You are 23, your life has just begun, as far as living it. You are going to graduate from college, regardless if it is a community one or not. And I am sure as soon as you get your career started you will have a place or your own. Your being single now is all for a reason. I as sure you hate hearing that, but, it is true. Don't give up on anything worth having. LOVE is worth having. You are a smart guy and have to know this to be tru yourself. LOVE is worth waiting for. You can. You will. Keep a smile on your face and the truth in your heart and you will get all of your hearts desires. Good Luck:)
2007-02-26 14:57:34 · answer #2 · answered by stuffy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i felt that way about a year ago so i know exactly what you're going through (minus the previous relationship part). i'll be 23 in May. and i felt like i was going to be old an alone. or a crazy cat lady. and i know you said you're tired of hearing it but you gotta be patient. and, don't rush into things. if you meet a girl, find some common interests and become her friend, first. go to a movie or go for a drive and just talk about anything that comes to mind. make that connection and see what happens.
good luck to you!
2007-02-26 15:12:10 · answer #3 · answered by carebear_grl21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well sweety its not that you can't find love or that you can't be loved cause Iam sure you can everyone can and everyone has a soul mate. STOP looking it will come to you naturally, and when it does it will be worth your wait!!! Just remember your a great person and just because past realashionships failed doesn't mean it was you, it could be the other one you were with maybe she has her own issues to deal with..........it will happen DONT WORRY,I tell my self this everyday!! its worth it!
2007-03-06 14:05:05 · answer #4 · answered by ~FliZo~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen. you are trying too hard. you need to just get on with your life and forget about women, or dating.
soon a woman will come looking and you'll find yourself in a date, but you need to make yourself busy and get your mind off it.
continue your life without another gal because all this looking around could send off "desperate" vibes, which could be the reason why you havnt met anyone yet.
2007-02-26 14:57:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the one just hasn't come along yet sommeday it will happen and you will be glad you waited and didn't settle for less
2007-03-05 08:07:10 · answer #6 · answered by Liv 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋