so i really like this girl in my class. i've known her for a few months. i want to give her a hug really badly too. she isn't flirtatious and she doesn't want a bf and thats what she says to everybody. i heard from one of my friends that she thought i was hot and she always waves at me in the hall with excitement. i see her twice in the day. how do i give her a hug without makin it seem really weird?!?
2007-02-26 14:39:27 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she is a realllllllly hot girl by the way. i know from other people that she's been asked out a million times and she's rejected all but the first. she said yes to the first guy 2 years ago because she wanted to try out to see how it would be like with a boyfriend. and i forgot to tell u that i'm SHY...
and ur right hugs are invasive sometimes
2007-02-26 14:50:34 · update #1
thanks for the tips...i also have another question about the same girl. its pretty important heres the link
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Aj3vtqW26H5CfYeNF8rJmfTsy6IX?qid=20070225162526AAHEqlZ
help would be really appreciated!!!!!!
2007-02-26 14:57:53 · update #2
U can't give someone a hug out of the blue without it seeming weird. There has to be some sort of reason. Maybe u finish talking to her and when u r about to leave for the day u give her a hug. From there it should be more easy because it will be expected. If u r trying to make a move on her u should just tell her instead of being a clown and trying to hug her.
2007-02-26 14:51:01 · answer #1 · answered by Vince R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think for the first hug, it should be a light, small hug, not one of those real tight bear hug things. She'll get the message, and next time maybe you can hug her a little tighter. A hug is supposed to say, "I like you"., so be careful, and don't over do it.
2007-02-26 14:51:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
is she shy? this girl, especially if she said you're hot, might just be too shy and doesn't know what to do in a relationship so she just says she doesn't want a bf to ease her insecurity. she has probably jsut never had a real bf before, or she could have a lot of problems at home that make her a little withdrawn from guys.
2007-02-26 14:45:25 · answer #3 · answered by Casey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a hug is a not basic subject to ask for why not make a joke approximately it like have you ever hugged an incredible guy at present and then see what happens sorry this is the desirable i can do for ya desire it facilitates
2016-10-16 14:01:08 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well when she is waving at u with excitement just like open up ur arms like ur giving someone a hug and she will most likely hug u..o and if she doest get why u r holding ur arms like that say...can i have a hug? lol
2007-02-26 14:44:21 · answer #5 · answered by Elicia21 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was in the exact same situation as you. I gave the girl a note saying how special i thought she was. She will definately give you a hug
2007-02-26 14:43:00 · answer #6 · answered by john 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say hi to her, get to know her, ask her out if you feel a connection. Then, try to get closer to her. You could end up getting more than a hug.
2007-02-26 14:43:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you guys have a pretty good frendship, just go up to her and hug her, she'll probably realize that your trying to hug her. It probably wont seem wierd if you guys have a good friendship.
2007-02-26 14:44:54 · answer #8 · answered by HazyMind 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be CAREFUL...go ahead and grab her and she'll cry rape.
And you are standing in the middle of a hall way, looking dumbfounded.
Who's going to believe you?
If I told you she is a millionaire, are you going to believe me?
Do Not believe everything you hear from your friends.
2007-02-26 14:46:49 · answer #9 · answered by jupiter49801 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you two ever pass in the halls at a close distance just go over and hug her and say "how's your day so far?" or something like that
2007-02-26 14:42:33 · answer #10 · answered by Steph 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋