What should I do? What do u think?
This guy that I like just broke up with his girlfriend about a week ago, and lately he's been flirting with me. Just to let you know we're friends. You see on the same day they broke up, he told me he loved me. But I don't know if he was joking joking, or try to make me think he was joking and he was really serious. You see him and one of his friends was messing around with me in a good way. Then his friend told him to be nice then he said I love you. What do you think? By the way I think she broke up with him for another guy. Do u think he likes me or not? What should I do? Also, today he said he could see me as a Playboy. Also, he said he could see me in the Playboy Mansion. Please Help!!
2007-02-26 14:24:38 · 12 answers · asked by Twinkie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
By the way he is not the type where he would get a rebound girl. Also, he's not the type where to get in a girl's pants all of a sudden. I would know b/c we've been friends for a while.
2007-02-26 14:30:42 · update #1
nahhh he is just messin aroound.
2007-02-26 14:29:59 · answer #1 · answered by elain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being a guy and all by him saying he loves you is just a way of flirting if that makes any sense. He probably does like you but no one wants to be the rebound. Go out with him a couple times and see whats happens. Good Luck
2007-02-26 14:35:26 · answer #2 · answered by Deep In The Woods 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he's serious. Maybe his feelings for you, are one of the reasons for that break up, you spoke of. Tell him you'll be his potato girl, if he'll be your Muffin Man. If he has chosen to flirt with you, flirt with him, and let the flirting and the friendship became a relationship, no matter the pace.By the way, he mean either that he could see you as a playboy bunny, or as a play girl. But that comment of his, is likely his exaggeration.
2007-02-26 14:45:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well sounds like he wants you to be his rebound girl...
and Any "Type" can have a rebound girl after a break up.. doesn't have to mean having sex or whatever.. just that you show him "love" so to speak and that makes him feel good about himself, so then he convinces himself he likes you.. when it might just be rebound feelings. you sometimes never think you are having a rebound, but people get feelings for other people who "show interest" in them because they don't want to be sad about the break up and want someone to be that way so they feel good about themselves. but it could be "false" feelings... if he told you he loved you and stuff on the SAME day he broke up with his gf.. and was joking around and all happy, instead of mopey for his break-up, then he obviously thinks he can get something out of you.. whether that just be a new girlfriend or not. and his saying he loved you sounds like he was just joking around as friends.... sorry you wanted it to be more.. you'll have to just see what happens i guess. just follow your heart but don't get hurt!
2007-02-26 14:28:30 · answer #4 · answered by coolio 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's a guy...He's being perverted, and this is his way of getting together with you. Don't fall for it. He is being a pig about it. He doesn't have to be so out there about what he thinks of you. If he thinks you're beautiful, he should tell you. He shouldn't be gross about it. Also, I wouldn't take the Playboy comments. I'd tell him to stop. That's just not cool. If he thinks of you that way, then he doesn't want you for your personality. Good luck!
2007-02-26 14:41:52 · answer #5 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you should just come out and ask him about it. And him talking about you being in playboy probably means that he thinks you are attractive or have a nice body. It will save you a lot of worry if you just ask him if he likes you!
2007-02-26 14:29:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whoa... is this guy a participant? what's up with the "Playboy" comments?? be careful!!! It sounds like he's flirting with you which ones is effective, yet take it sluggish. Why no longer in basic terms stay on the "friendly" foundation and notice what sort of pass he makes? It sounds like the "love" he's throwing around is fantastically floor...i does no longer examine too lots into it, especailly whilst he in basic terms broke up along with his woman. you do no longer desire to be the rebound woman and shrink to rubble a friendship. in basic terms take it sluggish and watch what HE does and how he acts with different females
2016-11-26 01:18:07 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he might like you but your taking all of this to fast I think. You should take it slow. But if your that type of girl who wants him right now, go for it. If you need flirting tips read this great website www.links2love.com .. also does he like you quiz, statistics, polls, flirting tips, etc. This site is to be read by both teens and adults.
2007-02-26 14:33:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes i think he does like you, it seems like it to me anyways.. but idk becuz guys joke around like that alot sometimes and they're just being friendly. just play it chill and see what happens, maybe he'll ask you out ?! do you like him ? he sounds like a nice guy
he could also just be joking around with you and saying those things to you so he can get over the break up. so just be cool with the situation and you'll never know whats going to happen
good luck ! =]
2007-02-26 14:30:32 · answer #9 · answered by paige b 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well every boy that says i love you dont really mean it, but he sounds like an exception. if she left him of course he is really going to start showing more interest in you. so i think that he likes you so give him a chance
2007-02-26 14:31:02 · answer #10 · answered by Beautiful G 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just take it slow.go out with him a couple times before anything seriouse happens.if he still wants to hang out after 2 dates with no sex,he really likes you
2007-02-26 14:35:15 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋