this hurts so much?

Question

a periculticar boy i met over the internet who i had no romanctic interest what so ever gave me his # a while after we began chatting and over the months he just seemed so interested in me so i started likking him too and now were supposed to go this a concert and his all of a sudden tells me there no chance for us to ever go out b/c i live in nj while he is in pa and some others reasons he didnt say....i was kinda all excited to go now im really now...i cried after he told me that and it seems like every girl he tell me about has a crush on him and hes still telling me he likes me.....:(

thank you all so much i appreciate it

Answer 1

You want a boy that has all the time in the world for you. If he likes you he should be doing everything he can to see you. He should be calling you even if he has nothing to say. he should be sending you notes telling you how pretty you are.... But most of all he would never let you left feeling like you are now. Its not going to work, wait for a boy thats worth it sweetie.

Good luck,

Answer 2

ppl think its crazy, but ur not the only one whos had a crush on some 1 over the internet. theres this boy who i thought was really into me, then we started talking more and more and we began to chat everyday, the more we talk the more i like him.when ever i would get mad at him he would even start begging for forgivness. well, i found out he does the same with this other gurl, and im really jealous and wondering if he likes me still. he still talks to me , but not as much so out relationship is growing apart. anywayz, i would b heart broken too, ( even if it is just some one on the internet) i think he knos u really like him thats y he kinda brags about all the gurls that has a crush on him, but i dont think its fair that hes shoving it in ur face like that and still tells u he likes u. if he did he wouldnt have done that and gurl, u kno u deserve better.so i would ignore him, even if it is hard. but thats just me =)

Answer 3

I'm sorry to hear that. I know your heart is broken and I certainly know how that feels. It will be hard and I know it will be more difficult to accept, but the best thing is to get over him and look for someone else, but don't be desperate. And please just don't judge all other boys you meet the same way. There are nice guys out there and more deserving for someone as sweet and wonderful as you.

Answer 4

calm down, sweetie...you met him over the internet, and for all you know, he isn't who he says he is...the internet is never a good place to find romance, let me tell ya...it just isn't a good idea, and i know that you're hurt, but you're probably better off this way...you have to move on and realize that it was a little silly dating thing over the internet...don't worry yourself so much, because it's not a big deal...right now, it may seem like it is, but it isn't...good luck!

Answer 5

Lone distance relations rarely works ,keep looking locally.You don't have much time invested in this guy.Get another guy
Remember make some ground rules if the next guy breaks them dump him.

Answer 6

boys are so confusing. that's why i think you deserve better than that and remember that there are always other guys out there that will care for you. if you two start something, good for you. just be happy and don't get caught up with something you'll regret later

Answer 7

might be a surprise, but long distance relatinoships suck, so the internet isn't the best place to meet someone unless you're gonna go move closer to them...

Answer 8

Is he an intelligent guy? Have you looked at your spelling lately? Perhaps that turned him off.

Answer 9

sounds like he wants you but other girls to tell him how you feel about him and that if he really likes you he should take you out if not then to let you alone but becareful dateing some one online.

Answer 10

Sounds like he's full of you know what.