Wow! I met this guy last week and he asked me out on a date. Ever since we have been hanging out everyday! I really think that I am falling in love with this guy. We have such a connection. He has even told me that he has never felt this way about anyone before and that he thinks he is falling in love with me. Is this bad? I met his son and everything. I mean I am on cloud nine, is it bad to get too serious too soon?
2007-02-26 14:26:56 · 18 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it's okay so don't worry it sounds fine that is as long as you don't have sex with him or anything cause you should wait at least a month for that.
2007-02-26 14:31:22 · answer #1 · answered by Lily_Flowers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with falling for someone, but take it slow. Get to know the person. For him to let you meet his son he must be serious, but a lot of people let their kids meet their flame of the week. Well just be careful and keep your eyes open. A week or two is too soon to think someone is your soul mate. Tell us about him in a year. Good Luck.
2007-02-26 14:32:33 · answer #2 · answered by amissybell 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i don't recommend getting too serious too soon. Try to guard your heart just a while longer. i have found in my experience that guys who are trying to be something or someone they are not will drop the fascade and show some true colors in 3 months or less. By the time you have known this guy for 3 months, you can be fairly certain of what kind of person he is. This is not a hard and fast rule though...
Best wishes....and enjoy the journey! i always did love the giddy falling-in-love feelings.....
2007-02-26 14:32:53 · answer #3 · answered by fair blue 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just be careful, ok? Sometimes fate happens, but sometimes it is too good to be true. Just pace yourself, and don't go getting married next week. DO NOT MISTAKE LOVE FOR INFATUATION. That is what it sounds like, and believe me, I know......if after a month (30 days) everything is still as peachy as now then maybe you're in luck. But don't get your hopes up, sometimes things aren't quite what they seem..
2007-02-26 14:31:23 · answer #4 · answered by cvjade 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How old is he, remember most guys under 30 only care about their nut, and will say do almost anything for that, if he is over then you can start to beleive them, but as long as your in l u s t also, then have fun, just know where it will most likely end, so be careful.
2007-02-26 14:34:16 · answer #5 · answered by wizzard 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you even know his last name yet? Enjoy it while it last. Make the best of it, you know they all start off so good. But im sure its not love this soon. But I know how you feel. Take it easy. Dont fall to fast...
2007-02-26 14:35:01 · answer #6 · answered by BE HAPPY! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um.. if u only known him for a couple of days, then yes, that is too soon to be taking anything that serious, get to know the guy better, than decide.
2007-02-26 14:30:56 · answer #7 · answered by GuitarChik 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u already know i'm about to say your taking this too fast. u juat really like him, and its a good thing because this could be a good relationship. give each other some space, before the spark dies. routine gets boring after a while.
2007-02-26 14:33:11 · answer #8 · answered by corie j 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No it's fine, you could know in one or two dates if this is the person for you or not. I say go with your feelings, and ride that cloud.
I wish you good luck.
2007-02-26 14:31:40 · answer #9 · answered by choiceav 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't make him you everything. Take it at a meduim pace. Just have fun and if it lasts good for you. But just relax and dont rush into everything because it may just be to fast.
2007-02-26 14:30:40 · answer #10 · answered by daprincess259 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just go with the flow. if he wants it too then there is no problem in trying it. just make sure it is something that is easy to fix if it doesnt work out. like buying something together. just dont go and get married yet ok! good luck
2007-02-26 14:31:07 · answer #11 · answered by young, hot, and Aussie! (chick) 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋