We're together since 4 months (but we don't live together - she's still with her parents). I love her a lot and we've had plenty of sex, like 3-5 times every week. I'm 29 and she's 24. She's started having the 'symptoms' since 3-4 weeks now, and this morning her test was positive. She's very affected and is telling me she doesn't think she can keep the baby as she doesn't feel ready, etc. Me, I'm ready to assume paternity and move with/marry her, as I've always believed that abortion is a crime (it's my conviction, nothing to do with religion) and as I love her so much. But I know also that the final decision is hers, as it's her body and her pain, although I feel 100% involved in this situation. I love her more than she loves me in fact. What should I do? Allow her to have abortion and move on? In my country, abortion is illegal but it is still done by some unscrupulous doctors.
2007-02-23
19:05:42
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