My ex whom i dated for 2 months up until 3 months ago called me last night and showed up at work to say hi... He took me to the bus stop and when I left him he kept texting me and calling, despite the fact that i made it clear I don't want to date him again.
His last call was at 3 in the morning when he started crying (I think out of frustration as he can't seem to understand why I'm 'being like this'...)
I told him not to call me or text me about that stuff again but he just kept crying and saying he couldn't talk now and he'd call me later... I've made myself very clear but he's not having it! What do I do???
2007-02-23 19:18:50 · 10 answers · asked by Liz S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have gone through this before several times. My only advice to you is dont answer his calls or text mess no matter how bad he makes you feel. If you run into him be nice but brief. You will get through it and eventually so will he. Just make sure you do not give him any pity parties or sympathy talks this will just prolong him getting over you. If you end up talking to him tell him you do not feel the same way he does and never will. Its hard I know ,but you cant prevent him from getting hurt here, you can only be honest.
2007-02-23 20:07:51 · answer #1 · answered by pallas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is having problems in his current life and is hoping for some comfort from you. You can either talk to him and help him out a bit or you can block his calls. If it was me, I would start off talking to him, but by the time I felt I was repeating myself for the 3rd time, I'd be considering blocking his calls. Once the crying started I think I would be blocking his calls. Call your phone provider to find out how to do that if you need - or check out the FAQs on their web site.
Peace!
2007-02-23 19:24:33 · answer #2 · answered by carole 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't pick up your phone. If there's a way to block messages, do it. Tell your family and friends to watch out for him, as he may be a stalker. If you've been broken up for three months, it sounds like there are other things going on with him.
2007-02-23 19:22:24 · answer #3 · answered by Katherine W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever you do, know madder how nice he gets, dont take him back. Maybe he regrets the past, and he just wants to be friends. Well, I dont think thats so, but you never know. I think he is in between girlfriends or in between bars to get your money or just to have a girlfriend. Play it cool, no big deal, right?
2007-02-23 19:22:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A restraining order sounds like it may be in order. If all else fails, have some male friends rough him up. It sounds bad, but it's affective
2007-02-23 19:23:19 · answer #5 · answered by Steel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dudes got problems watch out for yerself crying usually turns to anger ,anger leads to voilance and volance leads to the darkside ( kidding about last part )
2007-02-23 19:26:50 · answer #6 · answered by Rick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him see another man in the picture....he'll stop! If you're not with anyone else right now...you got a stalker!!
2007-02-23 19:23:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a bullet cost 9 cents
2007-02-23 19:21:52 · answer #8 · answered by sackman95 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like to me he is horney.
2007-02-23 19:23:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just don't answer.
2007-02-23 19:22:05 · answer #10 · answered by Huguenot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋