I'm 18 and their's this girl i know that i love. She went to primary school and the first time i saw her i knew I'd fall in love with her. I think about her every night and i know where she lives but i'm too shy to knock on her door. I definetly know she's the one for me but i don't know what to do.
2007-02-23 19:29:39 · 22 answers · asked by KK 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I went out with her in primary school and i know she still remembers me,
2007-02-23 19:43:59 · update #1
NO, she went to my primary school and she,s my age.
2007-02-23 19:49:20 · update #2
If you love and adore her as much as you say you do, then yes, go after her silly! :) Worst case scenerio, she doesn't want to go out with you, but then you'd be in the same position you are now; without her. On the other hand, there's a great chance that she'll be up for grabbing coffee or lunch and you'll get to know each other better and see how it goes from there.
Word of the wise though, be a bit careful about how you word things. Although I think what you wrote in your question is sweet, I think that some people might twist it a little and consider it a bit creepy (no offense intended). I think you have a big, long crush, but watch out about throwing the "L" word around or how long you've been fantasizing about her. Take it slow, and get to know her. She may not be exactly what you're expecting after you get to know her, but it will be fun to find out.
Soooo, I'm not sure about you stopping by her house (creepy thing again), but you should run into her somewhere, or send her an email, or give her a call and ask her out already!
2007-02-23 19:43:07 · answer #1 · answered by Ali 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a problem with the way you have wrote this, it sounds like you are a 18yr old bloke looking at a girl still at Primary school, you ought to get this removed and rewrite it...carefully next time. If she is an adult, remember that you need to be friends before you can be lovers, to be friends you need to speak to her, about anything, if you went to school with her then you are halfway there as you can say "hi", say you remember her from school, talk about her NOT yourself, NOW GO AND MAKE FRIENDS AGAIN! DON'T COME ON STRONG OR IT WILL BACKFIRE.
2007-02-24 03:46:40 · answer #2 · answered by venusintransit 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't knock on her door and say "I love you". Also if she doesn't feel the same way it might make her feel insecure that someone came to her house to express such deep feelings. Your house is your castle as they say in England... and you have to feel secure at home.
If you've known her since primary school and haven't yet got to know her as a friend, or to talk to, then your infactuation doesn't seem to be going anywhere. Good luck with it though.. depends on all the circumstances.
2007-02-24 03:38:00 · answer #3 · answered by Narky 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
u must do, cause if u won´t, you´ll think about this lost chance for the rest of yr long life.
go ahead!
but, be patient, just knock on her door, don´t fall into the house with the door....lol
first invite her for maybe coffee in a nice little store, or something else.
slowly, but lasting...
good luck!
2007-02-24 03:51:37 · answer #4 · answered by Alter Ego 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just knock the door and get it over with.
2007-02-24 04:37:39 · answer #5 · answered by chickadee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you just show up and tell her you love her. She will think U R creep.
Bump into her accidentally. Become her friend first and then when you guys hang out often.
Tell her U love her
2007-02-24 04:14:37 · answer #6 · answered by CG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her a call first. see how she reacts, if she is quite happy, then suggest going out somewhere as friends etc... and just take it from there. You may find she feels the same way about you!!!
Good Luck!
2007-02-24 03:35:22 · answer #7 · answered by Unhinged.... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't ask her out on a date, just knock on her door and say 'hey do you remember me? lets talk about the old days'
2007-02-24 04:28:36 · answer #8 · answered by pinklinz@btinternet.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't just go to her house and tell her you love her... try to "accidentally" bump into her and get talking... arrange to meet up somewhere to do something and get to know each other again....then you can start to let her know how your feeling!
Good Luck x
2007-02-24 05:35:43 · answer #9 · answered by Danni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is dangerous. She could either tell you to get lost or be your wife. TP her house. On the TP profess your love for her. While she is cleaning up the mess she will see who did it and call you. This is my worthless advice.
2007-02-24 03:36:26 · answer #10 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋