Singles & Dating - 21 February 2007

I always used to be the perfect student-straight A's all through high school. Then came college and pre-med.
Also, I have never had a b/f. In jr. high, I used to think, "It'll happen in high school." In high school, I used to think, "It'll happen in college." Now I'm on the brink of turning 21-It hasn't happened. Oh and friends? They always seem to have plans-with my roommate. This ultimately renders them too occupied to pick up the phone and invite me to their outings. Some friends, huh? If you look at my phone, in fact, you'll find the only calls I get are from mom & dad.
I'm just so scared that my life is going to be some mediocre joke, that I'll end up alone once my parents, God forbid, pass away, I'll be alone. I'll literally be the crazy old woman (old maid) who lives in a (mediocre) house, w/ a mediocre job (b/c she didn't make it into med school) full of cats. I don't even like cats! :( What do I do? I'm so lonely it hurts..

2007-02-21 07:30:30 · 1 answers · asked by abby j 5

I wants to start a family and wants to know which state is the best for my future children?

2007-02-21 07:29:35 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

if ur dating a guy but hes more like a friend and u feel like ur not even dating what should u do???

2007-02-21 07:29:12 · 7 answers · asked by Cassie C 2

i just broke up w/ my boyfriend 2 days ago beacuse i like some1 else....
i really want 2 go out w/ him but i dont no if it is weird 4 a girl to ask out a guy beacuse some ppl think so.b4 i was going out w/ my bf the guy i like liked me but now i dont think he does because i had a bf.im not afraid to ask him out but i just dont no if it would be werid.

help me!

2007-02-21 07:27:47 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

so i flirted back. he was in front of me. so what i did was i pretended to trip and fall on my knees to were he would see part of my boobs. do you think i made a wrong move. be honest.

2007-02-21 07:27:11 · 2 answers · asked by Kaitlyn A 1

and you perceive that it is not being used for one now - what awesome purpose would you wish to have your life to be used for?

2007-02-21 07:27:04 · 5 answers · asked by lowroad 2

i like is gonna go up to me and ask me out!! wow how should i react, i like him too but i don't wanna be like YES YES YES!!u know like all desperate and stuff...any advice??thanx..

2007-02-21 07:26:25 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've always wondered how someone's first love/like effects who and what they like throughout the rest of their lives. I can say from expirience of what it did to me, but I'd like to know what it's done to other people (both sexes answer this please).

2007-02-21 07:25:49 · 5 answers · asked by Andrew H 2

Turkey...

I made this one up. Please pass it on and let me know your opinion.

2007-02-21 07:25:01 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-21 07:22:46 · 8 answers · asked by Angelica 2

2007-02-21 07:22:18 · 18 answers · asked by kristinjoshy 1

Girls please advise;
I grew up with my best friend since grade school.
His sister has become the eventuality of a very good friendship over the years I've known her. But recently I've come to realize that I am utterly in love with her. About a year ago I told her that I liked her to which she reluctantly but sweetly responded that she saw me as a good friend. But recently we've been going out and having the time of our lives which to my response is " I can't relieve the strong feelings I have for her. "Flirting and the casual but ever so innocently touching games all become a factor of me thinking that she might feel the same way. I've known her all my life and she makes me think that if there is someone out there for everyone, She would be the one for me. What can I do about this frustrating situation????

2007-02-21 07:21:35 · 22 answers · asked by Gatumadre!! 1

quality of hummer she gives me?

2007-02-21 07:20:59 · 13 answers · asked by SEAHAWKS P.O.ED 2

i dont want to have to drink to do it

2007-02-21 07:17:53 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-21 07:17:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-21 07:17:02 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok so i was going ou twith this guy and well i really love him his name is thaddeous and i love him so much but he broke up with me and was liek i can just tell it will not work out and blah blah so ya he broke up with me i cryed for 2 and a half hours and i want him back so help me to learn how i can get him back, the real reason he left me is because of my brothe rand i think his frieands

2007-02-21 07:16:25 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Need some advice... me and my girl of 8 years have had a great relationship up until about 3 weeks ago when I was suspecting she was cheating on me, when she needed some help from a guy to get on the police department. She said all it was, was him helping her and nothing else. Yet, she was hiding text messages, calls, and emails.

Well everything went back to normal and I am fine. But I brought it up tonight, I told her just to tell me. I guess we took a "break" about 2 weeks ago and thats when I was suspecting maybe she messed around with him. She swore up and down she didn't.

Tonight, I said jokingly, "if we broke up, after 9 years, and the next day I had sex with another woman, would you be mad?" She said, "no, I would have no right to be, we weren't together." Keep in mind the few day break we took about 2 weeks ago.

Anyway, I know it comes down to trust, but she's done this before.

What do you all think??

2007-02-21 07:16:23 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Plus i know for a fact that he like's someone else. Suppose i went out with him. He would still have feelings for another girl

2007-02-21 07:14:37 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

One of my friends, who incidentally is an ex, is leaving forever in a couple of days. I wont see him after tomorow and we've had a strange relationship-rocky, but still good friends. We have been quite close recently. (Note: I have NO feelings for him, other than as a friend) He is a major flirt, can be slightly two faced and jus annoying sometimes. I've always wanted to tell him this, because of his arrogance and in the hope he'll see how other people think of him, possibly changing how he acts around people. He has hurt me before by acting like he cares, tells me im the only person he trusts but then acting as if I really dont mean that much to him.
So we were texting and I told him exactly how I felt (I mean, im never going to get another chance am I?) and he hasnt replied. What might he be feeling right now? And have I ruined our friendship forever before he leaves? I have no idea how to act around him tomorrow. Any ideas?

2007-02-21 07:14:36 · 22 answers · asked by Lily 3

I know the number probably will vary for men and women. But, if you are being honest, how many sexual partners is it OK or preferred for your future spouse to have had at the time of your wedding (assuming you are getting married in your late 20s / early 30s)?

2007-02-21 07:13:29 · 11 answers · asked by shanequinox 5

I used to go to school with a white girl (good looking) that was hooked on hung black mandingos. She would not date white. She only wanted black. Is that the white woman and the black man are made for each other in the bedroom? I know several white women that fancy Mandingos.

2007-02-21 07:12:52 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-21 07:12:35 · 7 answers · asked by TONY L 2

I am currently daiting this guy, and things are going really great. He says that there needs to be a common 'thing" that cupples have in order to sustain a healthy strong relationship. The thing is he is talking about actual activities, and we dont really have that. We get along great and have tons in common, and i think that we dont need to have a common "thing" to be successful. what do you guys think?

2007-02-21 07:11:57 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay so i just got out of this really serious relationship, and i was the one to end it. We didnt talk for 3 days, then we talked on the 3rd day. I told him i wanted him back, and he told me how he felt.. which was pretty much the same except he got into more detail. So then he tells me he has "some thinking to do". So i let him think about it. and then i talked to him on the 4th day of our breakup and things were TOTALLY turned around. on myspace he is commenting all these girls telling them how could they look and how they used to hangout all the time and how they havent seen eachother in forever. and then i confronted him about it. i said "do you feel comfortable and okay with telling these girls these things.?" he responded with "Yeah, i feel alright!" i said.. "You feel alright? as if you could look into their eyes feeling like you were looking into mine, or kiss them and feel like your kissing them?" and he didnt say anything
GUYS what does this mean?
GURLS what should i do?

2007-02-21 07:11:48 · 3 answers · asked by ♥DANyELLE. 2

well he has a girlfriend.i really love him though.i knew him befor she did.in fact i was gonnna tell him yesterday but we were with so many people and i didnt want to ruin our freind releshinship.what shoul i do?????? please help me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

2007-02-21 07:11:19 · 1 answers · asked by mallory s 2

I broke up with my boyfriend after a 7 month relationship. He will not leave me alone. He keeps calling me and i don't know what to do. I got a new boyfriend and i guess he's jealous. When he calls me he says that he is going the make my life a living h**l, and that i would regret what i did to him. ALL I DID WAS BREAK UP WITH HIM, he never treated me like a girlfriend...no dates...not one cause he does not have a car or a job. I just really don't know what to do. My new bf wants to go to his house and settle it, but i said no cause i don' t want to start more crap.

AHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!

2007-02-21 07:10:31 · 13 answers · asked by Punkgirl 1

Was it o.k. to put my cigar out on my fiancee's forehead?

2007-02-21 07:08:49 · 9 answers · asked by SEAHAWKS P.O.ED 2

2007-02-21 07:08:43 · 8 answers · asked by Sara007 5

I'm looking for a great guy to talk to on here or 360.

About Me:
I don't have a pictue shown yet cuz I dont know how 2 put one on there......n-e-ways i'm 5'4 and weigh 115 lbs, long black hair, athletic , light complextion, and I am 16.....well i'm about to be in May

Interest:
I love the summers and hot bubble baths. I love to feel the cool wet sand under beneath my toes on the beach.....

2007-02-21 07:08:40 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous