2007-02-21 07:22:18 · 18 answers · asked by kristinjoshy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Confront him! Make him understand that lies only hurt! It's very hard to trust and love someone who tells lies!!!!!
2007-02-21 07:27:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is your fiance lying about? If they are small white lies, then there is something that you are not being understandable about so he/she fells like he needs to lie or you will get mad. Talk about it. If they are big hurtful lies then he/she is a compulsive lire and you need to leave um; it will only get worse. I know that it's easy to say but, I too am engaged and I would not stand for lying. This is the man I am going to marry and trust is a huge issue...it has to be there. I suggest either way you talk about it but try not to give in!
2007-02-21 07:36:36 · answer #2 · answered by kv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi
If a person is constantly lying to you all the time then it is something that they have done before you even met them . How do you feel about it when they lie ?( Hurt ) To catch a person in a lie is the most hurtful of them all , but if they lie for nothing it has to be a mental disorder . Whether you stay or leave is your decision but I know from my past relationships that I did not stay .
Take care and good luck
2007-02-21 07:34:55 · answer #3 · answered by Constance M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends, do you like being lied to?
Liars certainly make life interesting - but they seldom make good mates for life. It's hard to hold onto the love when you are never sure if you can beleive anything he says.
Save yourself some time and heartache and move on. You will eventually leave him anyway. Why not just get it over with.
2007-02-21 07:31:44 · answer #4 · answered by Collette L 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should take tomorrow off both of you, go to the judge and get married right away. Sounds like you were made for each other. He's a liar and you love being lied too, match maid in heaven.
2007-02-21 07:48:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Option one - give them an ultimatum and stick with it. Tell them if it happens again then the relationship is over. However, this may cause them to become more sneaky in their ways. Once a liar - always a liar. If they hurt you once, shame on them - hurt you twice or 4 or 5 times, shame on you. Second and most popular option - tell them to find someone new to lie to - you're history.
2007-02-21 07:33:55 · answer #6 · answered by Cdub 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love and trust NEVER held hands with LIES!
Marriage was NEVER founded on LIES!
If you want to avoid a living hell. move on NOW!
If you have no where to go, or have money issues, join the Air Force or Navy!
Good pay, no living expense issues, learn another good profession. Travel and meet new people!
2007-02-21 07:31:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, what exactly is he lying about? I lie to my fiance' all the time, but I am very good to him... never cheated, never even thought about it. I love him with all my heart. Sometimes it is easier it tell a lie to help things go smoothly. alot of the things I lie about are silly... That doesn't make him/her a bad person... unless its something major like seeing someone else or drugs.
Now, don't get me wrong, I don't lie all the time per say... but it is human nature to lie to keep the peace... sometimes, like when you spend too much money on shoes or backed into a pole at wal-mart... etc.!!
2007-02-21 07:34:15 · answer #8 · answered by lovepink317537 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Let him go. Without trust there is nothing. Right now you have nothing, you could have nothing all by yourself. Don't allow anyone to make a fool out of you. You don't need that drama. You will find someone who fits just you. No one completes you but you. Simplify your life by getting rid of that garbage. Go out and live your dreams, never lose faith and take care of you.
2007-02-21 07:29:27 · answer #9 · answered by uneekqamar2004 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he/she can't be honest now, what's your marriage going to be like. You'll probably wonder every time they talk to you if it's a lie or not. You should talk to your fiance about this. Good luck!!
2007-02-21 07:28:22 · answer #10 · answered by beyondthelimit 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋