Quarter life crisis?

Question

I always used to be the perfect student-straight A's all through high school. Then came college and pre-med.
Also, I have never had a b/f. In jr. high, I used to think, "It'll happen in high school." In high school, I used to think, "It'll happen in college." Now I'm on the brink of turning 21-It hasn't happened. Oh and friends? They always seem to have plans-with my roommate. This ultimately renders them too occupied to pick up the phone and invite me to their outings. Some friends, huh? If you look at my phone, in fact, you'll find the only calls I get are from mom & dad.
I'm just so scared that my life is going to be some mediocre joke, that I'll end up alone once my parents, God forbid, pass away, I'll be alone. I'll literally be the crazy old woman (old maid) who lives in a (mediocre) house, w/ a mediocre job (b/c she didn't make it into med school) full of cats. I don't even like cats! :( What do I do? I'm so lonely it hurts..

Answer 1

if it's true what you say, then YOU MUST DO SOMETHING IMMEDIATELY.
FIRST. CHANGE YOUR ROOMMATE.
Pick one who will include you in her activities.
Or even naughtily, search for a boy as room mate. Of course take care whom you invite in your house.
About b/f maybe you're the type who waits for marriage. You are not the only one.
Better find a nice guy, of your age, there must be a lot of them, decent guy with intellectual preoccupations and serious job future like yours.
I'm sure you deserve better.
Write me on my email. I'll be happy to talk about anything.I mean it.