Singles & Dating - 19 February 2007

I met her once when she was buying something, obviously she was celebrating someone's occasion at office. She looked busy. When I happen to see her by coincidence, I approached her she said immediately: "Not now!" with a smile whilst she was in a big hurry to get back...

I was going to just say hello to explore how that person is really like and maybe after we had lunch or a quick chat for a few days, maybe I would be feeling at the level of asking her out.

I was surprised to hear her saying " Not now! " looks like I couldnot cope afterwards, was she really moving faster than I was?!

2007-02-19 02:07:56 · 4 answers · asked by Holmes 1

ive been seeing this girl since last summer, My mate fisrt met her and was having regular sex. Then one night she seduced me and since then we only have sex together nothing more which is great but lately i feel confused. We both like each other but she has told me time and time again she sleeps with other men and that most people she see ends up falling in love or wanting to marry her. She doesn'nt want a relationship then she tells me shes dating someone she really likes before it gets all messy. She admitted to me shes been like this since a teenager and that all her normal relationships have been messy. trouble is nearly evey 6 weeks she calls me for sex which is great, but i feel like she is in control, shes not forceful but i cant help getting the impression im being used. The sex is great but i have strong feelings for her which she is aware of and vice versa i think but shes happy with sleeping around for the rest of her life. i need advice im so confused/frustrated,please hel

2007-02-19 02:07:33 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-19 02:05:43 · 31 answers · asked by xobam15 1

i have this guy i really really LOVE but he stays in a different state from me and his like my other half.. what should i do?

2007-02-19 02:04:35 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

This girl is 18 and visiting from England. She left the other day to go back. She was here a month and we got to know each other pretty well. I like her alot. The night before she left (the last night I thought I was going to see her) we had a really fun night and before I left she told me that she wanted me to come tomorrow when she left to see her. When she had to leave and say goodbye to everyone I was wondering what we would do. If she was just going to say bye or maybe shake hands. I didnt know what to expect. Then she went to me last hugged me and kissed me saying I'll see you in the summer. We will be seeing eachother in the summer. I wasnt expecting that at all. What does this mean? Does she like me? What should I do when I see her in the summer agian?

2007-02-19 02:04:34 · 14 answers · asked by DJIAE 1

i love my girlfriend very much, and truely want to be with her but i've made it so she wouldn't trust me anymore. bottom line i looked at yahoo personals and escort websites just to look nothing else, everyone knows i'm not a cheater and am completely in love with her. she does have some trust issues from a previous relationship witch are affecting this.i belive she knows that she means the world to me and she wants to be with me but she will have a hard time trusting me because i lied along with looking at the sites. i feel like a fool to have lost her. what can i do?

2007-02-19 02:04:29 · 4 answers · asked by brknhrtidiot 1

I've recently met a guy with some really endearing qualities. He dated another guy about a year and a half ago for a while, maybe 4-6 months (give or take). He fell in love. They stopped seeing each other but were still good friends. The guy he fell in love with, died recently, about 3 months ago (illness, not HIV).

I am falling for this guy pretty heavily. He's not over the loss, and/or possibly their old relationship. My feelings are causing me to want time/attention from him, but he's probably not ready for dedicating much of himself to seeing me seriously. I'm not great at knowing what to do/say with those dealing with a loss. I want to be supportive and help him with the grief... but I also wish he was past it and could give me a chance with a clear head. What can I do to reach both goals??

2007-02-19 02:03:34 · 3 answers · asked by tb75 1

i'm very mature and have known him for ages and think that i like him but is it just too wierd, i don't know what to do.

2007-02-19 02:02:49 · 24 answers · asked by Just Emma 2

So far he hasn't done anything but beat around the bush an avoid my questions.. I know this is the internet and I met him on a dating site.. So yes if something doesn't add up I am right to question it.. So now I am sitting here waiting to see what his next move is.. He may be thinking of something to throw me off but that won't work I am too smart for that I have been hurt before and it pays to wake up

2007-02-19 02:01:21 · 6 answers · asked by whiteroses202004 2

i had a crush on him, he found out, i waited but nothing happened,., whenever i see him in school, it's normal for us and sometimes i feel that he's avoiding me or such,, my friends think im crazy..i try to tell to myself that he's not worth it and i have no crush on him anymore but eventually i feel myself thinking of him at times.....
i want to move on bcoz i feel that im making myself look stupid....


im already in college

plz help me

2007-02-19 02:00:44 · 12 answers · asked by lostinhislostlove 2

For me I prefer gals to create opportunity and I take initiatives accordingly, so that both parties will not feel awkward if it is just a false signal.

2007-02-19 01:59:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

i really don't know if i am in love with this guy. we have been going out for almost three years and i broke with him yesterday, it took less than five min. he is far away, wrong religion, my parents doesn't know bout it... and i don't know. i just love him but somehow too may question was going in my head, asking me again and again if this is right? i broke up with him. am i stupid?

2007-02-19 01:59:06 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-19 01:59:06 · 13 answers · asked by Squishbonce 1

My boyfriend and i were together for more than 5 years. We recently broke up, a couple of weeks ago. Today, marks the first week that we have not had any contact with each other. We broke up because he got jealous of my other guy friends. However, despite having broken up, we would still talk and meet up. He gives me confusing answers. He said that he is already with someone. Yet, he still wants us to meet up from time to time. Then, he asked for time to sort out his situation. Sigh, what is there to sort out if he is already with someone right? I asked him if he was already happy, he did not reply. I asked him if he is already in love with her and if he did not love me anymore. No reply also. Then, on our last meeting, when i told him we could no longer see each other, I saw a tear fall down his cheek. So what gives?

2007-02-19 01:58:05 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Like ,,, Personailty? Brad pitt.. looks. someone else..... body someone else..


see what i'm asking?

make up your perfect dream person out of celebrities..

2007-02-19 01:56:56 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

was married since i was18, met my wife in infant school when we were both 8 yrs old, had two children got divorced 5yrs ago when she ran off with a mutual friend, i have never been unfaithfull, but have realised that something is missing from my life, looking for someone who wants a caring generous person to make a life with, age not important, you could be 18 or 50, but a sense of humour is a must you will need to enjoy travel, the only thing i ask is you must be loyal and need a real naughty streak and enjoy the finer things in life, like food, wine, and sex, if you think you would be interested and would like to talk further then contact me for a chat, photo's optional. if you are the right person you may live the life you have only dreamed of, ps: my on screan name is only a sick joke and bears no reflection on the real person. look forward to hearing from you x x.

2007-02-19 01:56:08 · 8 answers · asked by Mo Lester 1

Can you break up via email??? Gosh, I just don't think I can say it to his face or even on the phone! I know it is a cop-out but is it okay? At least I can say everything I want and don't have to deal with him butting in!

2007-02-19 01:55:36 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-19 01:55:35 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

There is this guy that my friends think would make a good couple. I havent ever met him but we have to wait till next year anyway. He is cute but I have only seen him in pictures. My friend likes him to but she is giving him to me. I dont want to hurt my friends feelings but she already has a bf. I want to date him but I am not sure. She says she will have us meet so we can get to know each other. I think this might be the one but I have thought that on all my other relationships. But the question is do I go for him???????

2007-02-19 01:54:40 · 7 answers · asked by Volleyball Expert in da house!!! 2

2007-02-19 01:54:34 · 11 answers · asked by devil at work 2

i have a formal dinner tomorrow night and i have this gorgeous skin-tight sating gown, but i've tried wearing it with just about any type of panties and the lines always show. Is there an alternative to going commando (it's a really formal dinner)?

2007-02-19 01:52:05 · 7 answers · asked by dianabarff 3

I have a girlfriend and I have been going out with her for around 16 months. I kind of like this other girl at my school(my gf goes to another). I like them both and I don't know what to do. My girlfriend
s family and mine are really good friends and my older brother and her older sister are going out so if we were to break up it would be kind of weird... Any adive? btw I'm 14

2007-02-19 01:51:36 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My girlfriend wanted to talk to me. She said it was very important and after she blew me off this morning I told her just to text me. This is what she sent me…..

"i don't love you. How can i love someone who has made me cry for the past two nights? Who has me in tears right now!! Who ignores me for two days straight? Who screams at me in the car till I'm in tears because they think I'm lying when I wasn't! How can i love you when i am never on your mind? While you are trying to meet other girls behind my back even after being with me for TWO YEARS. How can i love you when all I do is cry? When you don't care one single bit that i cry! I said i needed to talk to you and all you could do was tell me to text you. So I'm writing this HERE IT IS!! I wanted a valentines day with you...considering we couldn't do anything on Wednesday. I went out of my way to buy you gifts I knew you would like and you lie to me tell me you got me stuff when in reality YOU FORGOT! How can you forget about me?? Am I not that important to you? I don’t want to cry anymore over you. I don’t want to cry PERIOD! I just want to be HAPPY!! I got you one more thing for Valentines Day that I did not give you. I wanted to wait till our actual Valentines Day date which was supposed to be tomorrow. But I realize today that Monday is never going to come! So here is my note to you! Yes I’m crying! Yes I’m VERY VERY UPSET right now and yes I just want you to hold me in your arms and tell me everything is going to be ok. But today is the LAST DAY I will EVER cry over you!! Things will be ok with or without you in my life!

I think I REALLY REALLY HURT HER!!
-did I hurt her?? I had no intention of hurting her!! I don’t know what to do now!!

2007-02-19 01:50:10 · 16 answers · asked by Mike T 2

I have been divorced twice this is the 2 relationship I have been in that ever hit me. My eye looks like he came up to me with a bat but it wasn't. Me and my boyfriend got really drunk at his moms bar. and I don't know what really happen neither does he, but next thing I knew I woke up on my sisters couch cuz my boyfriend was knocking on the door. I went back with him. I don't have anywhere else to go. I have an 18 month old child, who's real dad doesn't want nothing to do with him. My family is nutz, I don't have any furniture or anything and I cannot afford an apartment by myself, I have no friends, I've been to psychologist about 100 times, they all told me I was fine, but I know I'm not. I can't get food stamps because i'm right at the income limit for getting any help. Should I stay with the guy and next time he does it call the cops? I know one thing if he ever laid a hand on my son I will put him in jail no matter of love or not. What should I do? Yes, his mom was pretty mad.

2007-02-19 01:49:48 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Need some advice... me and my girl of 8 years have had a great relationship up until about 3 weeks ago when I was suspecting she was cheating on me, when she needed some help from a guy to get on the police department. She said all it was, was him helping her and nothing else. Yet, she was hiding text messages, calls, and emails.

Well everything went back to normal and I am fine. But I brought it up tonight, I told her just to tell me. I guess we took a "break" about 2 weeks ago and thats when I was suspecting maybe she messed around with him. She swore up and down she didn't.

Tonight, I said jokingly, "if we broke up, after 9 years, and the next day I had sex with another woman, would you be mad?" She said, "no, I would have no right to be, we weren't together." Keep in mind the few day break we took about 2 weeks ago.

Anyway, I know it comes down to trust, but she's done this before.

What do you all think??

2007-02-19 01:48:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

alright my boyfriend went to a party and slept over a bunch of girls got into a hotub naked and starting making out and ****. he got in also, although the other guys participated in sex games he says he didnt, im still angry/hurt out of my mind, he didnt call me afterwards and had no intention of telling me, i called him and went nuts. am i overreacting?

2007-02-19 01:48:05 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

What is a good way to get your crushes attention to let him know u are interested in him?

2007-02-19 01:46:58 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im 170cm and im kind of skinny because of my high metabolism I cant put on weight and I think that nobody ever takes me seriously because im short they may think im young or I cant have a say in anything..how will I ever find a girl

2007-02-19 01:46:20 · 5 answers · asked by IC4NDY_ 3

Ok so my ex-girlfriend used to tell me all the time how hot guys that she met or knew at work were. It made me so mad, but if i looked at a girl and said she was hot she would filp the #%$ out on me. It would take me forever to get her to stop being mad. Is this normal? or did i get a bad apple?

2007-02-19 01:44:48 · 23 answers · asked by john 3

Ok, so here is my story. I've knowng this girl for 10 years now. She and I have had a close friendship over the years. We developed almost a sibling kind of relationship after I told her I liked her 10 years ago. She and I live in seperate states and while we don't see each other or talk as much as we used to I still care for her and still have romantic feelings for her. Here is the thing. She has been such a good friend to me. She lives about 8 hours away from me. How do I tell her I have these feelings and hope to have a relationship with her, but if she says no maintain our friendship that already takes a lot of work to maintain?

2007-02-19 01:44:23 · 6 answers · asked by BexarClaw03 2