ive been seeing this girl since last summer, My mate fisrt met her and was having regular sex. Then one night she seduced me and since then we only have sex together nothing more which is great but lately i feel confused. We both like each other but she has told me time and time again she sleeps with other men and that most people she see ends up falling in love or wanting to marry her. She doesn'nt want a relationship then she tells me shes dating someone she really likes before it gets all messy. She admitted to me shes been like this since a teenager and that all her normal relationships have been messy. trouble is nearly evey 6 weeks she calls me for sex which is great, but i feel like she is in control, shes not forceful but i cant help getting the impression im being used. The sex is great but i have strong feelings for her which she is aware of and vice versa i think but shes happy with sleeping around for the rest of her life. i need advice im so confused/frustrated,please hel
2007-02-19 02:07:33 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're screwed about that situation, but all is not lost like other answers before me she has a self-esteem problem.
Try do get as many checks marked in your sexual to do list with her. You can have some serious fun with that I mean have at it she is one of those girls in your life who will do anything in bed for you thought it may be every 6 weeks you can fulfill an adventure of a lifetime.
Use her like she does you.
2007-02-19 02:53:40 · answer #1 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just because you want no string sex dose not make you a s**t or have self as teem issues i was like that for a while had different guys i could hook up with now and then didn't want or need a full time relationship.try not to fall to hard she has made it clear from the start that she wasn't interested in anything heavy just some fun now and then she will never settle with you or any of her other sex Buddie she would have by now if she was gonna so be safe have fun or if you looking for something more serious go find someone this isn't the girl for you sorry
2007-02-19 02:20:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is not going to settle down with you. She already told you that. Are you worried about AIDS, STD's? Look you are going to get you're heart broke on this one. So if you can't kick it with out falling then walk away. And yes you are being used and next time she calls tell her no and see what happens. You are there when she needs you to be, and she knows that if she calls you will be there and you won't deny her. Make sure you use condoms if you are going to continue this relationship. Been there done that. I wish you the best of luck.
2007-02-19 02:30:05 · answer #3 · answered by Shorty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok this wont be easy but you really need to knock it on the head.. it will hurt for a little while but as you dont see her that much anyway you will get over her quick enough.. she is totally playing you and she knows the more she holds herself back the more you'll want her. Wipe her out of your life, she doesnt sound like a nice person and i think you can do way better! for a start.. she slept with you whilst being with your mate?!... like i said, it will be hard at first but get rid and you will feel much better about yourself in the long run! There are much nicer girls out there! good luck!
2007-02-19 02:18:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, personally, I would cut her out of my life. You are just going to end up hurt. But...if you want a relationship, and you want to find out how strongly she feels about you, heres what you have to do.
The next time she comes over for sex, you need to get straight to your point. Sit down and tell hger how you feel. Tell her she means so much to you, but that it is brreaking your heartr that she is doing the same thing ith tso many guys. Tell her you want to be with her, but that it has to be all or nothing. At first, she will probably get mad and leave, but if ashe really likes you, she will come back.
I hope it all works out for you, and good luck.
2007-02-19 02:18:47 · answer #5 · answered by Linka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he incredibly enjoyed you and all the different issues he says then his " myspace" could be crammed with YOU. And so might countless the ears of his acquaintances. what kind of answer could he provide you approximately his status on myspace? something like....." uh , I havnt gotton around to it yet" or " i attempted to alter it whether it wont enable me?" or maybe " properly , i'm single untill im married " You seem clever, a sprint youthful yet you already know the failings he says and does isn't smart. and you already know something isnt suitable whilst issues dont upload up. So, it isnt suitable, much less Mr. suitable. Get you a robust one on down the line that makes you experience solid incredibly of puzzled. There accessible.
2016-09-29 07:58:46 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You understood when you met this girl that you were just gonna be f**k buddies, so why are you confused.
She doesnt want a full tied down relationship and justs wants to have fun.
When she eventually meets the right man she will settle down when the time is right for her.
2007-02-19 02:12:14 · answer #7 · answered by scragette2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly STD honey, it is a reality. If she is sleeping around you can get STD.... If she does not feel anything for you get out, you only going to get hurt (which I thing are are already). There is a lot of fish in the see, but also keep in mind patience is a virtue...
2007-02-19 02:15:40 · answer #8 · answered by Ladybird 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She likes playing around and has told you so. If you are looking for a relationship for life she is not your girl. Find someone else.
2007-02-19 02:14:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not feeling love. You are? Well lemme see. If you love her then can you spend the next 50 years with her without having sex?
2007-02-19 02:18:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋