I've recently met a guy with some really endearing qualities. He dated another guy about a year and a half ago for a while, maybe 4-6 months (give or take). He fell in love. They stopped seeing each other but were still good friends. The guy he fell in love with, died recently, about 3 months ago (illness, not HIV).
I am falling for this guy pretty heavily. He's not over the loss, and/or possibly their old relationship. My feelings are causing me to want time/attention from him, but he's probably not ready for dedicating much of himself to seeing me seriously. I'm not great at knowing what to do/say with those dealing with a loss. I want to be supportive and help him with the grief... but I also wish he was past it and could give me a chance with a clear head. What can I do to reach both goals??
2007-02-19 02:03:34 · 3 answers · asked by tb75 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're going to have to be willing to move slowly and have patience. In the long run, hell appreciate it. In the short term, he won't be asked to give you something that he's not ready to give.
2007-02-19 02:07:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
being Gay is very very WRONG pple in the world are mad these days saying its normal to be gay think if ur parents were gay maybe you wont be here today. thats why sodom and gomorah were destroyed, you might be a Good person at heart but u need to seek help you are pshycologically not well. prayers are with you
Since the world thinks its a great idea to be gay let everyone become gay and lets see how long it will take for man to become extinct or for me to be the last man alive
2007-02-19 02:11:41 · answer #2 · answered by uncrowned ruler 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say u should give him some time to get over it. Let him know u are available if he wants to talk. When talking to him, be the listener, encourage him to talk about their past relationship.
2007-02-19 02:10:18 · answer #3 · answered by girlygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋