i really don't know if i am in love with this guy. we have been going out for almost three years and i broke with him yesterday, it took less than five min. he is far away, wrong religion, my parents doesn't know bout it... and i don't know. i just love him but somehow too may question was going in my head, asking me again and again if this is right? i broke up with him. am i stupid?
2007-02-19 01:59:06 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i really don't know if i am in love with this guy. we have been going out for almost three years and i broke with him yesterday, it took less than five min. he is far away, wrong religion, my parents doesn't know bout it... and i don't know. i just love him but somehow too may question was going in my head, asking me again and again if this is right? i broke up with him. am i stupid? he is millions millions miles away from me and broke up over the telephone.
2007-02-19 02:06:07 · update #1
we use to study together, live together... and no i don't believe in internet relationship... he comes to me country and so on...
2007-02-19 02:10:00 · update #2
No you are not stupid. You obviously were not sure about him because you did not tell your parents. Move on and don't look back.
2007-02-19 02:04:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My belief is that if you have doubts about something, then there's something wrong. If it took less than 5 minutes to break it off, then maybe subconsciously you knew it wasn't going to work out. You gave yourself the reasons. What don't your parents know about, you and him? Why? What are you trying to hide from them?
My personal opinion? Those reasons you have are valid. Let me tell you, I went into a relationship with doubts, and it was a bad mistake. I kept telling myself that I love this guy, and love is strong, and will help conquer,blah blah blah, etc., but, there was always doubt and something always bothering me. I wasn't happy.
If you don't know if you love him, again, there's doubt. You are definitely NOT stupid!
2007-02-19 10:18:31 · answer #2 · answered by alexis513 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No your not. first of all, long distance relationships don't always work out. maybe 1 out of 10 may work!.... And I'm not against dating someone not of the same religion, but in the long run it does bring up obstacles. You weren't feeling right about it and you had every right to break it off! If it's ment to be then it's ment to be!... You'll find someone else! Someone better! That's the best part of breaking up!....
Hang in there girl! Take care and have fun!
2007-02-19 10:07:00 · answer #3 · answered by Trisha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like 3 years of a relationship behind your parent's back was stupid. You were right to break it off with him, no way it would have worked.
2007-02-19 10:08:16 · answer #4 · answered by GLSigma3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not stupid. We go through times in our life when not a whole lot make sense. If this is one of those times, it's better to be unattached to figure out what you really want. Just make sure its not over because of how your family would feel about him. Make sure it's because how YOU feel. Life's too short. Your making the right decision. Be easy on yourself.
2007-02-19 10:04:17 · answer #5 · answered by Crazzychk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its kind of confused thing in your mind. You should not break up with him over silly reasons. You can deal with it everyday because you love him, love is worth, isnt it? Why don't you go back to him and have a talk with him, maybe he can help you to calm and think what you guys should to do. Try to clean off everything in your mind because its not health.
2007-02-19 10:03:19 · answer #6 · answered by MissGal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me get this straight.
He is far away, but you been going out?
going out where, if he is far away how are you going anywhere with him???
You say you don't know if your in love with him, then you say you are.
sounds to me like you have some internet bf you have never acually been with in person.
get real
thats not a relationship.
2007-02-19 10:08:14 · answer #7 · answered by Mr R 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U were not stupid. U made the decision 2 brake-up with him.
2007-02-19 10:03:42 · answer #8 · answered by Mighitman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
control mind
2007-02-19 10:02:40 · answer #9 · answered by keral 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur not stupid just move on
2007-02-19 10:10:15 · answer #10 · answered by hoplessly_in_love 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋