I have a girlfriend and I have been going out with her for around 16 months. I kind of like this other girl at my school(my gf goes to another). I like them both and I don't know what to do. My girlfriend
s family and mine are really good friends and my older brother and her older sister are going out so if we were to break up it would be kind of weird... Any adive? btw I'm 14
2007-02-19 01:51:36 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
14 is too young to deal with it. I think you have to stop that right now before they find out what you just did. Want to know why, because what if they find out and it will cause you badly and you will be very overwhelm. I think you need to focus on your life and school than deal with these. If you really like your girlfriend then don't see other girl in your school. ITs not good for your relationship. If you keep that way, you will have that habit and you will have bad life in the future. Think about it. Good luck.
2007-02-19 01:54:47 · answer #1 · answered by MissGal 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like you've been tied down to one girl for a long time for someone so young, very unlikely you'll be with this girl forever anyway, don't think about weirdness, you can still be friends if you end it on good terms. You have to decide what you want, not everyone else. If you don't know what you want flip a coin. If it comes up with the side for your girlfriend and your disapointed with that, you'll know that it's time to move on and vise versa.DON'T ask the other girl first, then your just using your old gf as a safety net and thats cruel, and if she ever found out she'd be furious! xx
2007-02-19 09:58:30 · answer #2 · answered by Londonbaby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, I feel for yeah. That's pretty intense. In all honesty, your young. Yah yah, I know you hear it alot, and your going to. But seriously. Your 14. Your going to have alot of relationships. Don't hold your self down to one. Go out there, live life! If you were completely into someone, you wouldn't be looking at that other girl. Trust me, lifes short. Just make sure you break it off with your girlfriend before you start testing the waters on this other girl. Don't be that guy...
If your parents or your brother try to give you a hard time you just tell them that your 14 years old and you are not trying to get involved in seriouse relationships. Believe it or not, they should be pretty relieved and agree with you.
Good luck!
2007-02-19 09:58:35 · answer #3 · answered by Crazzychk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are fourteen. You have a long life ahead of you and now is a good time to learn to trust yourself and your feelings. Do you want your brother and family to determine your choices or do you start to trust your own judgement? It is time you assert yourself! Additonally, this is not a good time to just get hooked up with any one person, it is a time to discover who you are and what you like. Don't be exclusive. I am not saying to "Dump" the current girlfriend so much as make sure she understands that you like her and that you are also interested in other people and other things.
2007-02-19 09:57:14 · answer #4 · answered by findingselflove 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about how the rest of the families will be about this. You're young enough yet to be having all these hassles about who you are dating! Be with whoever makes you happy and enjoy being young!!
2007-02-19 09:56:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
who do you like more if you like your gf more stay with her but if you like the other girl i would ask her first and if she says no you will still have you girlfriend but if she says yes dump your girlfriend
2007-02-19 09:56:53 · answer #6 · answered by hockeylova#1 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
wow you wasted 16 months of your life good job dude.
2007-02-19 09:54:44 · answer #7 · answered by John Becker 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Follow ur heart.
2007-02-19 10:00:28 · answer #8 · answered by Mighitman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
two words---------------- to young
2007-02-19 09:55:29 · answer #9 · answered by MJ 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋