Ok, so here is my story. I've knowng this girl for 10 years now. She and I have had a close friendship over the years. We developed almost a sibling kind of relationship after I told her I liked her 10 years ago. She and I live in seperate states and while we don't see each other or talk as much as we used to I still care for her and still have romantic feelings for her. Here is the thing. She has been such a good friend to me. She lives about 8 hours away from me. How do I tell her I have these feelings and hope to have a relationship with her, but if she says no maintain our friendship that already takes a lot of work to maintain?
2007-02-19 01:44:23 · 6 answers · asked by BexarClaw03 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am sure she cares about you just as much as you do about her...go for it.
2007-02-26 22:10:20 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well there are a lot of ways to handle this. Is she seeing someone? that could be a major factor. Truth is I had a guy friend that i knew since i couldn't remember and he told me he wanted to be more than friend, i liked him a lot but i was unsure. He ended up moving away and i wish i would have told him the same. I believe the sweetest thing he could have done want to randomly show up at my door with a rose and just look me in the eyes and tell me that I'm on his mind and i will be always and all that sappy love stuff. maybe you can try it this way, you don't have to have a rose you plan what your going to say just show up and tell her how your feeling, things are always better in person~* good luck
PS
This will probably change your friendship(maybe in a really good way!) , but reserving all these feelings are going to change it ( Perhaps in a bad way) as well.
2007-02-19 09:58:20 · answer #2 · answered by lilkinkykitty101 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell her those feeling that you have 10 years ago is still real.
Let her know that your love for her is real. Noone waits around 10 years any more. You are one sincere person. Your love for her is true.
Copy and paste this and email it to her. Hope she reads it and come to realize that if a man waits 10 years for a woman, then there is nothing in this world that he won't do for her.
2007-02-19 09:50:52 · answer #3 · answered by Lana817 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you really want to tell her how you feel then you should just show up some random day at her work or where she lives. take her out to dinner, like some where romantic. when you feel the time is right then tell her how you feel or ask her how she feels. if she doesnt feel the same way be alright with that. just let her know that you still want to be friends then.
2007-02-19 09:48:56 · answer #4 · answered by Heather 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should go visit her and ask her out to the movies, and take it from there, go out to dinner after wards and have a talk.Do you know if she is involved with anyone you find that out first before you start pursuing her.
2007-02-19 09:49:12 · answer #5 · answered by Mary O 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i dont know why others here are so optimistic...dude...before doing anything just make sure she is not seeing anyone..or it will be hell of an embarrassing situation...
2007-02-27 08:36:31 · answer #6 · answered by don 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋